Is it normal to be jelly of these girls?

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Is it normal to be jealous of those girls everyone likes, that are skinnier, prettier and more popular than u and always have plans and everybody loves em and has a life? Because I was looking thru facebook and when I found out that a whole bunch of her friends threw a party for her, I was jealous BC she's prettier, more popular, prettier and has more of a social life and when I had a party, a whole bunch of people said they would show up but didn't and my 2 other friends were going to the amusement park instead and one of my other friends dropped the plan to go watch the Harry Potter Premeire or WTF it was with some girl I hate. I am also jealous cos shes a cheerleader and I would like to do that cos it would be fun and youd get to have competitions and spend time with friends but I dont know any acrobatic skill so I cant. The boys I liked the hated me like love her, that makes me jelly too. Is it normal that I get jealous of this type of stuff?

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  • Thereisnogod
    11 years ago | pl

    It's called life

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  • alv1592
    11 years ago | pl

    Jealousy isn't a very nice emotion, but you can't control your feelings, so yes it's normal and it doesn't necessarily make you a mean person. But you do have friends, right? At least be glad of that. Of course, if you don't feel that they're true friends, you can always meet new people.

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  • GingerRaine
    11 years ago | pl

    Of course this is normal! Almost every girl feels this way at some point.

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  • radiatelove
    11 years ago | pl

    def. normal. but you'll blossom one day and come into your own, just remember to always be yourself because i think people can pick up on someone who is acting fake and people don't generally like hanging out with those type of people. facebook always makes people's lives seem more interesting and fun than they really are anyway! if you're life was really as great as some people on facebook try to make it seem they wouldn't even have time to do things like upload pictures and have conversations on there and stuff. don't worry, this world is massive and you'll find your place of happiness and comfort one day =)

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  • pondford
    11 years ago | pl

    Being jealous of them is normal, defo. But don't let jealousy become you.

    Being popular isn't all that interesting. There's too much attention on them, people relying on them, they're expected to be at everyone's party- all of that means they have to be perfect in everything, and do and be everything everyone else expects them to do and be. They're either enjoying it and can't see the possible end to their popularity, or too humble to notice they're popular, or they're dying inside from all the expectations and pretending... or something else disturbing.

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  • joybird
    11 years ago | pl

    Aw :o( I feel so sorry for you!

    Find something that you excel at and you will be instantly popular.

    I was popular at school coz they all 'used' me to help them study.

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  • Wilkommen
    11 years ago | pl

    It's normal, but try not to let it get you down. If you can join some school clubs where you can meet people who appreciate you and your interests.

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