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They are so close. They dated for 7 years. We've been dating for 2. They do everything together bc they are still bfs. It's like they are still in a relationship. I get livid and don't feel I can compete. What is the normal thing to do. Bc I get so jealous. I want to personally make her disappear.
Is it normal?
What are my options?
sadly the only person closer to your gf(or any gf for that matter)is her best friend
Definitely not okay for them to still be that close. Seven years just don't fade away so easily. If she really wants to be with you she will put a little distance between that guy and herself.
I also agree with Eva. This seems pretty rude of your gf to do. Personally I think if my gf was still that close to her x bf I would have reconsidered things a long time ago.
That exact same thing is going on with me right now, and my girlfriends best friend hates the fact that her and I are together. She talks a bunch of shit about me behind my back and my girlfriend knows it but wont defend be cause she "doesnt wanna get her mad"
yeah and im always a very jealous person so that doesnt help
I'd be the exact same way. I am a very jealous person when it comes to exs.
That's totally rude of her to be that close with an ex if she is dating you. I don't care if they are bf's it's rude and shouldn't be allowed.
It's totally understandable to feel the way you do! I consider myself a non jealous person but let's be honest....they dated that long & I'm assuming they've had sex....how can you be expected not to be jealous?!