Is it normal to be jealous of your friend's christianity?

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I started bringing a friend to church with me. I was excited that both of us would be experiencing Christianity together. At first she was shy, but now she talks to everyone and goes to youth group and everything. I thought this was something we'd be doing together, but now she never even asks me I'm going or want to go. She just leaves me! She never sits with me anymore, or talks to me during church anymore. She talks to everyone else. Then she recently got saved! I'm hurt because I feel like she abandoned me, and doesn't care about me anymore. She prays to Jesus more than she talks to me now. I'm angry, and want to know if this is just my selfishness or if it's normal to feel this way. Comments will be a great help.

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago | pl

    It's like getting a new toy, it keeps you busy and occupies all your time. But after awhile it gets boring and you don't pay it much attention anymore. She will get bored with it eventually.

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  • 68newman
    13 years ago | pl

    As a Christian myself, first you should be happy that you brought someone into God's family.

    Now that being said, I understand why you are upset, I would be too. Can you talk to her and tell her how you feel, and ask her why she appears to not want anything to do with you? Maybe she is unaware of how her actions are affecting you.

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  • Riddler
    9 years ago | pl

    I want to answer this but there is too many conflicting things for me to think how to properly answer it.

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  • bones
    13 years ago | pl

    God loves everyone, despite what anyone thinks. You should talk to her about it and tell her you want to sit with her at church and be closer friends.

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  • brpacman
    13 years ago | pl

    Learn your raw history,
    it is a fact of history that christianity is has killed more people than any worl war.
    If you believe in a book written thousands of years ago then you shouldnt have a hard time believing this.
    The root of christianity is evil and cruel.
    Learn your history pleeeeeaase!
    i just hate seeing people blinded by what they preach and pray about as being from such a holy and purely good source.

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    • [Old Memory]
      13 years ago | pl

      sorry your wrong PEOPLE killed others not the religeon so am i part of a mass murdering group? well i must be if christianity is a killer?
      thats like saying "i didnt shoot them the gun did"

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  • monnas
    13 years ago | pl

    Yes you are part of s mass murdering group, your a Christian aren't you?! Well you didn't actually kill anyone (I assume) but you are most certainly a member of the fan club. A fan club of hate mongering and murder! Good for you you evil bastard. By the way your friend is 'talking' to Jesus, sounds like a dude I wouldn't want to speak to LOONEY TUNES!!!!!

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    • [Old Memory]
      13 years ago | pl

      ? lol wow im giving you the age of 15 i dont care if you are or not you are that age to me because i agree that your brain has stopped improving after that age. :)

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