Is it normal to be jealous of her boyfriend?

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So I'm the girl who never had a big group of friends, and the ones who I do have are basically all guys. Then one day, a new girl came to my school and we hit it off amazingly well. She became my very first great best friend. I can totally be myself around and act as stupid as I want, and she will join in and wont think I'm weird. I've told her things that I've kept to myself for all my life. I'm so happy I found her and that we get along so great.
But then she got a boyfriend. And I want to know if what I'm feeling is normal:
I'm starting to feel a... jealousy? towards her boyfriend. Like he is taking her from me. I mean we still hang out a lot at school and text sometimes but not as much. And she hasn't been that eager to come over anymore. And her boyfriend's friends (some of which are my friends, and i have a crush on one of them, dunno if that's relevant) always crowd around them and it's making me feel like I'm being pushed away.
I'm scared to tell her how I feel because I'm afraid she won't take me seriously, or will be freaked out or something.
So, are my feelings normal? And what should I do?

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  • la_uva_mojada
    12 years ago | pl

    Everybody that has left a comment so far, DON'T LISTEN TO THEM! Retards.. anyway, this can be a difficult situation. It sucks, but since you guys are still in school, and things tend to be fickle (i.e. her relationship won't last very long), or if it does end up being a long term relationship, then you'll just have to adjust. Perhaps the next time you get to spend with you you can tell her about how you like that dude, and she can be your wing woman and that would be perfect like double dating or what not. I hope you the best!

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  • Savmagic
    12 years ago | pl

    Your not a lesbian these people are fucking stupid. This is sooo normal. But your friendship with this girl is over. Chicks will ALWAYS choose her boyfriend over everyone else. You should just move on with your life. I know it's unfortunate but it's a lost cause. You'll make more friends. Some will let this happen some won't but when they do know when to walk away. If this girl wants to hang out she'll let you know but don't wait around because she has better things to do right? Chicks are dumb

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  • 8Serene8
    12 years ago | pl

    Seriously tell her how you feel if it's who you want

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  • thatguy101
    12 years ago | pl

    Lesbian jk jk I know how ya feel

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    Nope thatguy hit the nail on the head.... you most likely are a closet lesbian. Its fine nothing wrong with it. Get her drunk take advantage of the situation then blackmail her with some evidence so she agrees never to see him again. Very easy plan... depending on the chic ... a mickey and some jager should get her to make some bad decision

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