Jealousy is terrible. I am one of the most jealous people I know and it has caused me so many problems. I finally found that I am so much happier by just being myself. There will be people who like you for who you are and your qualities, and there will be people who hate you for the same reasons. In the end you will be happy by being true to yourself. I had some friends like the one you speak of, and I tried to be like them and was miserable because I was not true to myself. I said I liked music I really didn't care for to turn the heads of the guys in our click, I pretended to enjoy partying and getting wild and going out when really I am a hermit. Finally I just decided I was too stressed and exhausted from trying so hard to be accepted by these few people. I finally realized the world is a huge place and there are tons of different kinds of people in it. I decided to be me, and to hell with those who didn't like it. In the end, I have more friends now than I did when I was a "poser", and a husband who adores me and two beautiful little girls. Not to mention the girls I was trying to be like are pilled out whores now and only used for the one thing all the guys wanted to use them for anyway. By being yourself you may have to find a new group of people to hang with that fit who you really are and you will be happier, I guarantee it.
Is it normal to be jealous of a friend
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Jealousy is terrible. I am one of the most jealous people I know and it has caused me so many problems. I finally found that I am so much happier by just being myself. There will be people who like you for who you are and your qualities, and there will be people who hate you for the same reasons. In the end you will be happy by being true to yourself. I had some friends like the one you speak of, and I tried to be like them and was miserable because I was not true to myself. I said I liked music I really didn't care for to turn the heads of the guys in our click, I pretended to enjoy partying and getting wild and going out when really I am a hermit. Finally I just decided I was too stressed and exhausted from trying so hard to be accepted by these few people. I finally realized the world is a huge place and there are tons of different kinds of people in it. I decided to be me, and to hell with those who didn't like it. In the end, I have more friends now than I did when I was a "poser", and a husband who adores me and two beautiful little girls. Not to mention the girls I was trying to be like are pilled out whores now and only used for the one thing all the guys wanted to use them for anyway. By being yourself you may have to find a new group of people to hang with that fit who you really are and you will be happier, I guarantee it.