There is a difference between planned fighting and actual fighting. Trust me when i say this, Learning all of those doesnt make you unstopable infact i have seen quite a few people who practice alot of martial arts and still end up on their ass by someone who teaches themselfes their own moves.
Basicly what im saying is dont get over confident because a school fight is just a school fight one day you will notice learning so much martial arts doesnt give you much of an edge when fighting people on the street.
Not to mention i myself have beat someone who thought that just because they do martial arts that they cant loose and im not trying to brag but he was supposible one of the "Bad asses" that you dont fuck around with.
Basicly what im saying is dont be over confident because there are always thousands more people better than you even if they havent trained up in a particular fighting style.
seems like your whole fighting thing as given an edge to you that has gone way over healthy competition, especially since its close to home and within the family.
i agree in the advice theres always someone better and more unfortunate than you. be grateful for the fact you are top of the class, and also just for the most simplest things in life. I think alot of looking down and sizing yourself up against others is borne out of competition. Its when it goes to jealousy feelings that it becomes bad, sportsmanship wise and for you personally. Jealousy will eat you up if you keep on dwelling on it. Be happy for your opponents if they win, don't be a sore loser. Lose gracefully. Not the end of the world. the fact you are questioning if your behaviour is normal or not, is a sign you are doubting what you are doing at the moment. Don't compare yourself to your mates, differentiate yourself by doing things YOU want, in YOUR way, at YOUR speed and do them to the best of YOUR ability and within YOUR means. Your Martial Arts values and skills can only go so far, compared to your innate skill of using your own common sense and knowledge of self worth to achieve bigger and better things. then you won't have to worry about being angry about falling short all the time. To fight because you are mad is probably the reason why they are using the stupid word. Theres other ways of fighting bullies outside of physically taking it out on them.
exactly my point and being strong is only part of fighting but there are people who take things more further than fighting and start being the type of people that fighters cant win against.
Just remember this attitude you have will attract the people that will eat you up in a second. i suggest a change.
I agree with u 100%,I know Im not unstopable. I used to loose alot. But I learned from it. I know little about street fighting. I also know those cowards try to jump me. I recently moved and I don't have those problems anymore. Basicaly I can protect myself. The reason I win may not be because of my background. I win because I work hard and I want it more. No one is unstopable not even Bruce lee. and yes there is always some one better,my brothers are better to most ppl. But I have something they lack HEART,but what is heart with no control. I have never given up in my life. Hardwork will always beat pure lazy talent. Nothing has ever come to me easy because I work for it.
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There is a difference between planned fighting and actual fighting. Trust me when i say this, Learning all of those doesnt make you unstopable infact i have seen quite a few people who practice alot of martial arts and still end up on their ass by someone who teaches themselfes their own moves.
Basicly what im saying is dont get over confident because a school fight is just a school fight one day you will notice learning so much martial arts doesnt give you much of an edge when fighting people on the street.
Not to mention i myself have beat someone who thought that just because they do martial arts that they cant loose and im not trying to brag but he was supposible one of the "Bad asses" that you dont fuck around with.
Basicly what im saying is dont be over confident because there are always thousands more people better than you even if they havent trained up in a particular fighting style.
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seems like your whole fighting thing as given an edge to you that has gone way over healthy competition, especially since its close to home and within the family.
i agree in the advice theres always someone better and more unfortunate than you. be grateful for the fact you are top of the class, and also just for the most simplest things in life. I think alot of looking down and sizing yourself up against others is borne out of competition. Its when it goes to jealousy feelings that it becomes bad, sportsmanship wise and for you personally. Jealousy will eat you up if you keep on dwelling on it. Be happy for your opponents if they win, don't be a sore loser. Lose gracefully. Not the end of the world. the fact you are questioning if your behaviour is normal or not, is a sign you are doubting what you are doing at the moment. Don't compare yourself to your mates, differentiate yourself by doing things YOU want, in YOUR way, at YOUR speed and do them to the best of YOUR ability and within YOUR means. Your Martial Arts values and skills can only go so far, compared to your innate skill of using your own common sense and knowledge of self worth to achieve bigger and better things. then you won't have to worry about being angry about falling short all the time. To fight because you are mad is probably the reason why they are using the stupid word. Theres other ways of fighting bullies outside of physically taking it out on them.
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oh sorry about that. my bad. advice was directed to the initial writer
also it is not the stlye but the fighter. No stlye is superior they all lack something the other has.
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This is kind of what a bully is. They are insecure and they try to make everyone feel like shit to make themselves feel better.
exactly my point and being strong is only part of fighting but there are people who take things more further than fighting and start being the type of people that fighters cant win against.
Just remember this attitude you have will attract the people that will eat you up in a second. i suggest a change.
I agree with u 100%,I know Im not unstopable. I used to loose alot. But I learned from it. I know little about street fighting. I also know those cowards try to jump me. I recently moved and I don't have those problems anymore. Basicaly I can protect myself. The reason I win may not be because of my background. I win because I work hard and I want it more. No one is unstopable not even Bruce lee. and yes there is always some one better,my brothers are better to most ppl. But I have something they lack HEART,but what is heart with no control. I have never given up in my life. Hardwork will always beat pure lazy talent. Nothing has ever come to me easy because I work for it.