i felt the exact same way about this girl who my boyfriend texts until very recently.
pretty much what happened was that a girl i work with opened up to why she flirted with this guy we worked with last year. she told me it was because she felt like he was her only friend at work. this got me feeling really bad for disliking her for flirting and really got me thinking.
i thought about the girl that is always texting my boyfriend and realized that she doesn't have close friends. i always see her "friends" put up pictures without her and openly talk about hanging out without her on facebook. if people flirt out of lonliness then i definitely have a newfound understanding for this girl. this really helped me get why she would text my boyfriend and i feel way less jealous now that i understand and pity her, rather than thinking she is better than me.
that's what jealously really is, thinking that someone has what you don't have. you think someone has this pull on your boyfriend that you don't, but try going deeper in this girl's head and if you can find anything out that's negative about her i'm sure you'll feel a lot better :)
Is it normal to Be Jealous?
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i felt the exact same way about this girl who my boyfriend texts until very recently.
pretty much what happened was that a girl i work with opened up to why she flirted with this guy we worked with last year. she told me it was because she felt like he was her only friend at work. this got me feeling really bad for disliking her for flirting and really got me thinking.
i thought about the girl that is always texting my boyfriend and realized that she doesn't have close friends. i always see her "friends" put up pictures without her and openly talk about hanging out without her on facebook. if people flirt out of lonliness then i definitely have a newfound understanding for this girl. this really helped me get why she would text my boyfriend and i feel way less jealous now that i understand and pity her, rather than thinking she is better than me.
that's what jealously really is, thinking that someone has what you don't have. you think someone has this pull on your boyfriend that you don't, but try going deeper in this girl's head and if you can find anything out that's negative about her i'm sure you'll feel a lot better :)