You sound normal, although a bit cynical and lacking in empathy.
Your post focuses mostly on what you feel other people can do for you and you don't really mention what you bring to the relationships you have. Character is how you treat those who can do nothing for you.
Perhaps you haven't matured emotionally yet; it happens at different times for everyone and some people never do.
I consider myself to be quite self-sufficient... so I treat those who can do nothing for me (mostly everyone) just as I said... in a friendly way. I can have a blast with people, but it doesn't mean that I will be best man at their weddings or the godfather of their kids.
Maybe you are right about the emotional maturity... though I do understand people feelings actually, I just don't find them in myself. I know that people are supposed to care for each other and get closer and closer... but I just cannot get attached to anyone.
Is it normal to be introverted and distant, yet sociable and friendly?
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You sound normal, although a bit cynical and lacking in empathy.
Your post focuses mostly on what you feel other people can do for you and you don't really mention what you bring to the relationships you have. Character is how you treat those who can do nothing for you.
Perhaps you haven't matured emotionally yet; it happens at different times for everyone and some people never do.
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I consider myself to be quite self-sufficient... so I treat those who can do nothing for me (mostly everyone) just as I said... in a friendly way. I can have a blast with people, but it doesn't mean that I will be best man at their weddings or the godfather of their kids.
Maybe you are right about the emotional maturity... though I do understand people feelings actually, I just don't find them in myself. I know that people are supposed to care for each other and get closer and closer... but I just cannot get attached to anyone.