Is it normal to be interested in someone of the same sex but only...

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So, first time using this site. Here we go: I am, or as far as I know, a straight male. I met this other guy who was a crossdresser and incredibly feminine but also really cool, even when he wasn't dressed up I had... Interesting feelings about him. But I'm not sexually attracted to men. This was the only one I ever was, I guess it's also because there was some emotional connection, I dunno. I guess my question is; is it normal to only have homosexual feelings for one person ever?

(Not gonna even ask if I'm still considered straight after that, haha)

(I guess I should also include that I know for a fact I'm attracted to preop transsexuals, but that is definitely a whole other issue I'll tackle some other time.)

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago | pl

    Sorry to tell you, but pre-op transexuals are genetically male so being attracted to them is definitely not straight

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    • buzzybimaybe
      8 years ago | pl

      it but I don't think you're gay though I think you'reI'll tell you it but I don't think you're gay though I think you're bisexual that's pretty hot actually one thing I do know is if it looks like a girl that is fucking awesome because then you won't have to have her strap on to fuck you in your ass because once a man tries it in the ass they will always love it and you always have a hole to fuck

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      • Ellenna
        8 years ago | pl

        I might be able to respond to that if you re-send it in a comprehensible form.

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      • buzzybimaybe
        8 years ago | pl

        okay what I was trying to say is that I don't think that he is gay he is bisexual and once you take it and also I was trying to say it once you take it in the ass you will always want ot up the ass then because it makes you cum so good that does not make you gay though do you think it makes you gay

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    • VinnyB
      8 years ago | pl

      I have to disagree. Appearance is a big part of attraction. If a straight man is looking at a convincing post op transsexual who appears to be female and finds her attractive, this would not make him gay. As an example, the below link is of a drag queen who still has a penis, who I think many straight men would mistake for for an attractive female. Doing so would not make them gay because it is the female features that are attracting them.

      https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/f8/ff/b8/f8ffb80a6946322610c663f864130058.jpg

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      • Ellenna
        8 years ago | pl

        Depends whether it's the artificially created female characteristics which are the attraction or whether it's the penis

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        • VinnyB
          8 years ago | pl

          In the picture I linked the features aren't artificially created. That is a man wearing makeup and a dress, so no more artificial than a woman in make up and a dress. Obviously a penis isn't a feminine feature. But most people don't see a mans penis when tbey first meet them, and a post op transsexual as the OP was talking about wouldn't have one, so it wouldn't be a factor.

          The point is that if a man is attracted to someone because they appear female, that attraction would be heterosexual in nature.

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  • buzzybimaybe
    8 years ago | pl

    I am completely straight but one time I did fuck a man and God did it turn me on in fact is talking about my cock is hard as a rock but yet I'm straight I don't get that at all and less gay or bisexual

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  • Arkaven
    8 years ago | pl

    I agree with HelloAgain, Sexuality is not a clear cut and well understood thing. Gay/Straight/Bi, are loose labels to help people quickly understand something specific about individuals but in no way can sexuality be defined into these three columns. Masculinity and Femininity however are NOT gender specific. Many effeminate men are straight and many burly women are straight too. Just as many men and women who appear straight aren't.
    Your gender and sexuality are for you to explore, enjoy and discover, that's one of the fun parts of being human. Social conformities such as the LGBTQ and 'S' (Lets not forget Straight) labels are a quick overview but are not comprehensive enough to live by.
    So if you are a guy that is attracted to the feminine, then that's all you need to know. Explore and enjoy that. it sounds like you have found that genitalia is somewhat irrelevant. Great. Go find out more about yourself. Learn who you are specifically and enjoy yourself. Test your boundaries and see what works for you and then let yourself off the hook, let yourself be as different as required and enjoy it. In harming none, do as ye will.
    If you are worried what others will think, remember, humans have a habit of finding SOMETHING to moan about, Dogs gotta bark, Cats gotta crap, Humans gotta bully Humans. There are a lot of cool people in the world too who will accept and love you.

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  • HelloAgain
    8 years ago | pl

    It is perfectly normal, fret not. Sexuality is not set in stone and really, I think what a person identifies as should depend upon what he prefers, not whether he sticks solely to that preference. Hell, in most ancient cultures, Greek, for instance, sexuality wasn't really divided into strict categories.

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  • Arm0se
    8 years ago | pl

    Sort of normal.

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