the BEST thing u could do is to stop anticipating a relationship. thats self sabotage right there! as a general rule of thumb, if u are not happy alone, you are not ready to be attached.. if thats the case, u need to work on yourself first. how, u ask?.... well, first, dont even worry about women for now (only as friends) and start doing things for YOU. like working out, spend some time investing in you, which shows you like your self. high self esteem is extremely sexy!!! and girls u happen to meet, dont look at them as a potential gf, but as a person u could talk to as a friend. never be fake!!! even if ur shy/clumsy/etc! a shy guy can be such a cutie, but a fake guy, or worse yet, a guy who tries to use money to get the girl is even more pathetic! big no-no! ms right will literally come knocking at the moment u least expect!
I hate the response "if you are not happy alone, you are not ready to be attached" only because it has a great element of truth. The problem lies with the fact that they both form a symbiant circle meaning that one can't exist without effecting the other. Liking myself is the only thing that I can't really bring myself to do no matter how fit, strong or how much motorcycling or bush walking with the kids etc i do. The novelty of doing things for yourself wears thin pretty quickly.
But your comment is right good advice nonetheless.
IIN to be intelligent, athletic, stable, but yet women still hate me
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the BEST thing u could do is to stop anticipating a relationship. thats self sabotage right there! as a general rule of thumb, if u are not happy alone, you are not ready to be attached.. if thats the case, u need to work on yourself first. how, u ask?.... well, first, dont even worry about women for now (only as friends) and start doing things for YOU. like working out, spend some time investing in you, which shows you like your self. high self esteem is extremely sexy!!! and girls u happen to meet, dont look at them as a potential gf, but as a person u could talk to as a friend. never be fake!!! even if ur shy/clumsy/etc! a shy guy can be such a cutie, but a fake guy, or worse yet, a guy who tries to use money to get the girl is even more pathetic! big no-no! ms right will literally come knocking at the moment u least expect!
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I hate the response "if you are not happy alone, you are not ready to be attached" only because it has a great element of truth. The problem lies with the fact that they both form a symbiant circle meaning that one can't exist without effecting the other. Liking myself is the only thing that I can't really bring myself to do no matter how fit, strong or how much motorcycling or bush walking with the kids etc i do. The novelty of doing things for yourself wears thin pretty quickly.
But your comment is right good advice nonetheless.