What if one partner doesn't know how to communicate and doesn't like to? Should I take it personal if my bf doesn't like talking things out? Or thats for him to learn? and me to not take it personal? One of the things I am "needy" about is the need for him to communicate with me but he doesn't. He likes saying "okay its over done, moving on" without solving the issue. Its not healthy for our relationship because we're not solving anything and I come off as needy which chases him away. He doesn't see that. Whenever we argue, he tries to play the victim and say everything is his fault and to be honest, everything is his fault. It all comes down to how he is. If he can only communicate, Ill be less needy, and problems will be solved.
Is it normal to be in love without being needy?
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What if one partner doesn't know how to communicate and doesn't like to? Should I take it personal if my bf doesn't like talking things out? Or thats for him to learn? and me to not take it personal? One of the things I am "needy" about is the need for him to communicate with me but he doesn't. He likes saying "okay its over done, moving on" without solving the issue. Its not healthy for our relationship because we're not solving anything and I come off as needy which chases him away. He doesn't see that. Whenever we argue, he tries to play the victim and say everything is his fault and to be honest, everything is his fault. It all comes down to how he is. If he can only communicate, Ill be less needy, and problems will be solved.