Try to be realistic about what your life would be like.... do you like his folks? Does he drink too much? Is he mean with money? Is he out all the time? Doe he watch too much TV?
Try to pick some bad things about him and exaggerate them, to convince yourself that you wouldn't be happy with him!!
One day (hopefully soon) you will just get tired of feeling this way and will move on. Unfortunately, we can't tell our hearts what to do - but our brains can work slowly on our feelings to reduce them.
Is It Normal to be in love with your first love after 9 years?
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Been there!
Try to be realistic about what your life would be like.... do you like his folks? Does he drink too much? Is he mean with money? Is he out all the time? Doe he watch too much TV?
Try to pick some bad things about him and exaggerate them, to convince yourself that you wouldn't be happy with him!!
One day (hopefully soon) you will just get tired of feeling this way and will move on. Unfortunately, we can't tell our hearts what to do - but our brains can work slowly on our feelings to reduce them.
Good luck to you finding a nice new man.