Whoa... thats really sad. Well, you could always tell him how you feel, but think about how that could jeopardize his current relationship. But you did already say that you want to be over him. You don't wanna love him the way you do anymore. You're clearly tired of it. Maybe it's time for a vacation.
Spend sometime away from him. Meet new people. Put it in the past. Completely. Sure, it's hard, but just think of it as, "it just wasn't meant to be". Yeah, I bet you've heard that often. You're not the only one, but it's true. And I've found that the more you continue to tell yourself that it's over, and wasn't meant to be..., you will start to see things much more clearly.
You guys have good memories together. Keep it at that. Something prevented you guys from moving forward. So understand that there's probably a good reason why you guys aren't together right now. There's a reason why you're at where you're at. And if you can't see the reason right now, you will in time. Especially if you learn to let him go.
You're brain is sick of it. Your heart hasn't gotten the memo yet. But if you continue telling yourself to let go, move on, and that whats in the past is in the past, you're heart will soon follow in the brains steps to letting go.
Is It Normal to be in love with your first love after 9 years?
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Whoa... thats really sad. Well, you could always tell him how you feel, but think about how that could jeopardize his current relationship. But you did already say that you want to be over him. You don't wanna love him the way you do anymore. You're clearly tired of it. Maybe it's time for a vacation.
Spend sometime away from him. Meet new people. Put it in the past. Completely. Sure, it's hard, but just think of it as, "it just wasn't meant to be". Yeah, I bet you've heard that often. You're not the only one, but it's true. And I've found that the more you continue to tell yourself that it's over, and wasn't meant to be..., you will start to see things much more clearly.
You guys have good memories together. Keep it at that. Something prevented you guys from moving forward. So understand that there's probably a good reason why you guys aren't together right now. There's a reason why you're at where you're at. And if you can't see the reason right now, you will in time. Especially if you learn to let him go.
You're brain is sick of it. Your heart hasn't gotten the memo yet. But if you continue telling yourself to let go, move on, and that whats in the past is in the past, you're heart will soon follow in the brains steps to letting go.