Is it normal to be in love with your best friend?

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so my friend and i have known each other for 13 years.. He's been my best friend forever. just a few years ago, like 4 yrs, he asked my why nothing has ever happened between us. i told him bc i didnt want to ruin our friendship. now yrs later, i think i'm starting to like him. we flirt all the time and he drops subtle hints like grab my hand, cute little things. i'm 19 and he's 21. the thing is, i dated one of his really good friends.. so my queestion is, is it a bad idea to try to pursue annything with him? its just like when i see him, i get butterflies and i cant stop smiling. idk.. maybe i'm just trippping lol.. but what do you think? should i tell him how i feel for him? whawt would u do?

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  • bigguy2010
    12 years ago | pl

    Go for it, or you'll always ask, "What if?".

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    • luvezpuzy
      7 years ago | pl

      So far she hasn't rejected my advances I have a feeling that her husband wasn't giving her any for a while she said she had to masturbate but I told her I'll take care of her.

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  • piman
    12 years ago | pl

    I don't know where me and my best friend stand. She's a girl btw. I'm not gay.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago | pl

    There's nothing wrong with falling in love with a best friend.

    In fact, you SHOULD be best friends with your love.

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  • Legion
    12 years ago | pl

    Normally, i wouldent go for a best friend, but if you both have very deep feelings for each other, and feel it could happen, than go for it.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    Get some.

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  • ladygaga2009
    12 years ago | pl

    update: he just told me that he liked me.. he's liked for a long time but was afraid to say anything. yesterday we spent all day together to celebrate his dads bday. we arent official, we are taking things slow bc we dont waqnt to ruin anything, ya know, but there is def something there between us.. im sooo happy. idr the last time i got butterflies in my stomach from a guy.

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    • Legion
      12 years ago | pl

      You both seem like you would be very happy together, so go for it.

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  • jimts
    12 years ago | pl

    What I would do... Well, since you're good friends, you communicate very often - I wouldn't call him or whatever until he checks up with me to see whats wrong, then tell him I'm distant because I think I have feelings for him, play my eyes until he grabs me and... well, you know :P

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