I agree with The Guru about asking her out in public... perhaps maybe not publically as in sort of like you walk into her and a bunch of your mates and you sort of ask her out now that wouldn't be good you'd embarass each other let alone make the tension that bad she'll probably crack and not think about it... however if you can think of anyway to catch her on her own or if she walks home alone walk with ehr or something...? Messenger i would say is a bad way of asking her out it tells her your too much of a coward to ask her out in person (first impressions are important) maybe perhaps one day just say your going for a walk near her house or something... (if you know where she lives) and ask her if she'd like to walk and talk with you... i know thats how my girlfriend got me into our relationship haha xD plan ahead be witty but not too witty confident but overconfidence means she thinks she'll go out with you no matter what be shy but outspoken and express your feelings man shes a woman she'll understand just make sure you dont babble too much let her talk for a bit ask her about life and how stuff is going for her and then slowly broach the subject tell her you like her a lot and that friendhsip is nice but you'd like to know her better, just be yourself and one important thing empathise her point of view, she may find that you asking ehr out puts pressure on her if she needs time let her have it and dont be too pushy, follow her lead to an extent and push slightly and if she allows it then stay in that category for a bit and then push som more later just not all at once and if she says no take it like a person not a man or a woman (standing there looking proud and strong and not bothered or bursting into tears at her feet) say something like you understand the situation and you understand how she feels and you love her enough to let her go but you want to still be friends and maybe more in the possible future one important rule though if she says no, no is the answer ok? pestering constantly will get you nowhere sorry if i babbled too much but relationships are a tough one :)
Frank...:)
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I agree with The Guru about asking her out in public... perhaps maybe not publically as in sort of like you walk into her and a bunch of your mates and you sort of ask her out now that wouldn't be good you'd embarass each other let alone make the tension that bad she'll probably crack and not think about it... however if you can think of anyway to catch her on her own or if she walks home alone walk with ehr or something...? Messenger i would say is a bad way of asking her out it tells her your too much of a coward to ask her out in person (first impressions are important) maybe perhaps one day just say your going for a walk near her house or something... (if you know where she lives) and ask her if she'd like to walk and talk with you... i know thats how my girlfriend got me into our relationship haha xD plan ahead be witty but not too witty confident but overconfidence means she thinks she'll go out with you no matter what be shy but outspoken and express your feelings man shes a woman she'll understand just make sure you dont babble too much let her talk for a bit ask her about life and how stuff is going for her and then slowly broach the subject tell her you like her a lot and that friendhsip is nice but you'd like to know her better, just be yourself and one important thing empathise her point of view, she may find that you asking ehr out puts pressure on her if she needs time let her have it and dont be too pushy, follow her lead to an extent and push slightly and if she allows it then stay in that category for a bit and then push som more later just not all at once and if she says no take it like a person not a man or a woman (standing there looking proud and strong and not bothered or bursting into tears at her feet) say something like you understand the situation and you understand how she feels and you love her enough to let her go but you want to still be friends and maybe more in the possible future one important rule though if she says no, no is the answer ok? pestering constantly will get you nowhere sorry if i babbled too much but relationships are a tough one :)
Frank...:)