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For about 2-3 years now i have been wondering about this girl she the only one like there i start to like other girls but then i see her and shes the only thing i think about.i am wondering if i should ask her out but where?i was thinking about on msn or something because i am terrefied of asking her in public.i need help fast
If she likes you then anyplace you want to take her is ok. As long as she's with you
How cute that you like this girl like that.. She's really lucky and if you get rejected then she just misses out on a great guy like you
totally normal, but women want to fuck you then get to know you. despite what they "say" so good luck not fucking this up.
i've had that a couple times. usually i think it's both of you have crappy social skills and both of you know it. so neither one of you will ever be happy because you have these crappy social skills. i don't know what to do about it.
I agree with The Guru about asking her out in public... perhaps maybe not publically as in sort of like you walk into her and a bunch of your mates and you sort of ask her out now that wouldn't be good you'd embarass each other let alone make the tension that bad she'll probably crack and not think about it... however if you can think of anyway to catch her on her own or if she walks home alone walk with ehr or something...? Messenger i would say is a bad way of asking her out it tells her your too much of a coward to ask her out in person (first impressions are important) maybe perhaps one day just say your going for a walk near her house or something... (if you know where she lives) and ask her if she'd like to walk and talk with you... i know thats how my girlfriend got me into our relationship haha xD plan ahead be witty but not too witty confident but overconfidence means she thinks she'll go out with you no matter what be shy but outspoken and express your feelings man shes a woman she'll understand just make sure you dont babble too much let her talk for a bit ask her about life and how stuff is going for her and then slowly broach the subject tell her you like her a lot and that friendhsip is nice but you'd like to know her better, just be yourself and one important thing empathise her point of view, she may find that you asking ehr out puts pressure on her if she needs time let her have it and dont be too pushy, follow her lead to an extent and push slightly and if she allows it then stay in that category for a bit and then push som more later just not all at once and if she says no take it like a person not a man or a woman (standing there looking proud and strong and not bothered or bursting into tears at her feet) say something like you understand the situation and you understand how she feels and you love her enough to let her go but you want to still be friends and maybe more in the possible future one important rule though if she says no, no is the answer ok? pestering constantly will get you nowhere sorry if i babbled too much but relationships are a tough one :)
Frank...:)
ask her out in public its not a big deal. Rejection hurts a lot less than you think it would. I say stop wasting your time she prolly considers you a friend by now but what the hell do it anyways