Is it normal to be in love, with someone who doenst notice you?

Oh god, here we go again.
I have a crush, like most people. Except to him Im invisible. Is It normal to have dreams about wanting to be with him. All I've wanted Is him for a few good months now, and I cant think about anything else but him. Im afraid to see him In the halls at school, because im afraid i'll mess up. I dont wanna talk to him, because Im afraid If he see's me up close he'll think Im ugly. He likes those pretty popular girls, with straight chi flat ironed hair, he likes the girls who wear too much makeup and are high on the "social latter". He's best friends with my best friend. Therefore we hang out alot. Its just everytime I see him, I want him to know how i feel. But I dont have the guts to say anything. Im invisible to him, In school he doesnt talk to me. Outside of school, he's too busy talking to other girls. He likes this girl named Melisa, who will never like him back. Sometimes I just get so down on myself, and think Im so ugly just because of him. Just because he doesnt want me. I wanna tell him how I feel. I wanna talk to him, but cant. I dont know what to do.
Is it normal to not be stressed about grades, and other people but to care about what one person thinks? I go to the school bathroom all the time to constantly check myself in the mirror, just incase I see him in the halls.
should I tell him how I feel? Is it normal to love someone, when they dont even notice you the way you want them too?
We like all the same stuff, and we're like the same person.

Is it normal to know you want to be with someone the rest of your life, when you dont even know what you want out of life yet?

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Based on 77 votes (58 yes)
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Comments ( 15 )
  • ttty

    He's a guy. He's already noticed you, evaluated you, and probably rejected you within the first few seconds of meeting you. Perhaps you don't fit his type like you suggested, maybe he doesn't get a vibe from you, or maybe he was interested in someone else at the time, but unless he's the kind of guy that's too afraid of expressing his feelings and sexual interest to ask a girl out, then he's not interested. He notices you, but doesn't care. Move on.

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  • razehavoc

    Well, first off. I think you are in love with the idea of him and not actually him. You can try talking to him. A lot of men are attracted to different things. Me personally need someone who is smart and hold a conversation. Looks become less important, when you're looking for a relationship. Become friends with him. Inflate his ego...some. Giggle at his jokes. TALK TO HIM. In the end though, just be yourself. It's cliche, but it's cliche for a reason.

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  • iwantthebest

    Also we were best friend when we were 4 and all of that dissapeared

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  • iwantthebest

    I FEEL THE SAME WAY
    exept i still care about my grades

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  • Pearsonz

    If you don't tell him how is he to know. I found out recently that a girl I used to have a crush on at school has fancied me for years.. If only either of us had talked about it.. Easier said than done I suppose.

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  • fightagainstheyouth

    You'll never know until you try. What have you got to lose?

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  • Vyzr

    I guess thats normal. I watch anime all the time with that stuff in it. But i've never liked anyone like that before so i dont know for sure.

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  • lostsurfer

    well i see alot of ppl here are telling you to talk to him but my male opinion is don't. if he doesnt see you in that light it'll freak him out and you'll loss any chance instead focus on yourself be more confident. Honestly speaking for myself and every guy i know there's some unattractive about a girl obsessing over you its just to easy, guys want what they cant have.

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  • osweettart

    Work on your own self image. Don't think about how he sees you. Think about how YOU see yourself. Be proud of who you are and your confidence will grow. Guys notice confidence more than anything. Know why those popular girls get so much attention from him? They are confident and see themselves in a completely different light. Trust me, if you turn your attitude around and become proud of who you are and all you have to offer, you're going to be less afraid to talk to him. If you do a flip like that, he's bound to notice. Think about all of the qualities you have that would make you unique and a good catch. Make sure you let them shine and I'm sure he'll notice. Talk to your best friend about the crush too and maybe you'll get some help. Friends are your biggest advocate and are awesome at talking you up and making it look like the sun shines out your butt.

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  • ruralfrights

    Cart before the horse as far as a well directed and healthy relationship goes.

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  • MicrosizeMe

    Clasic. Do something that stands out from the crowd in a good way and maybe he'll think it's cute. Tried making something with paper?

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  • MercedesBenz

    Okay dont stress out about it. First and foremost love you. Guys find confidence to be the most attractive thing. So exude confidence around him. Know that youre worth his time. Know you can talk to him. Know youre gorgeous. Just let it flow. Good luck.

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  • ronw696

    No matter where you go there you are!

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  • Uumm talk to him duh...

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  • You don't have to be gorgeous to get a guy's attention. Maybe buy a cute new outfit or makeup or something though. It will boost your confidence and confidence is ALWAYS key. Even if you suck as a person, if you are confident in yourself, people will notice you and think that you are cooler than you really are. :)

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