Being genuine with her and evoking your emotions is great. There's no reason to feel ashamed. It doesn't make you seem weak, nor will she view you as such.
Try talking on the phone/ skyping. See if you click through there.
See, most guys think that by showing our soft sides, that we'll turn off women because we'll seem weak, and women only want strong, independent aloha males.
Truth of the matter is, most women know to appreciate a man that's willing to be honest with his feelings and doesn't try to hide them. They love hearing emotions and being a part of them. Just like you'd feel important if she came to you for all her problems, the reverse is also truth.
My advice to you is to try to have a serious talk with her about you situation with her. Be lighthearted in your approach if you're feeling nervous, but it doesn't hurt to ask where things are going. You're not going to lose what you already have, so don't be afraid.
And look, if anything, a little boost to your confidence will take you far. I hope that things turn out great for you, but just never be afraid of the choices you haven't made.
I'll try to take your advice, i try but it doesn't come easily to me with the type of person i am. But it's not very hard to talk to her after all this time i think i know how to approach i just need to actually do it.
Thank you so much for your help, You're awesome! :)
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Being genuine with her and evoking your emotions is great. There's no reason to feel ashamed. It doesn't make you seem weak, nor will she view you as such.
Try talking on the phone/ skyping. See if you click through there.
See, most guys think that by showing our soft sides, that we'll turn off women because we'll seem weak, and women only want strong, independent aloha males.
Truth of the matter is, most women know to appreciate a man that's willing to be honest with his feelings and doesn't try to hide them. They love hearing emotions and being a part of them. Just like you'd feel important if she came to you for all her problems, the reverse is also truth.
My advice to you is to try to have a serious talk with her about you situation with her. Be lighthearted in your approach if you're feeling nervous, but it doesn't hurt to ask where things are going. You're not going to lose what you already have, so don't be afraid.
And look, if anything, a little boost to your confidence will take you far. I hope that things turn out great for you, but just never be afraid of the choices you haven't made.
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I'll try to take your advice, i try but it doesn't come easily to me with the type of person i am. But it's not very hard to talk to her after all this time i think i know how to approach i just need to actually do it.
Thank you so much for your help, You're awesome! :)