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I have two guys in my life i care so much about. The first guy lost contact with me for a while and i met the second guy. Now he is back, asking to work things out knowing that i was the reason he left in the 1st place, i won't be able to drop any of them if asked to choose. Is it normal to feel this way?
I read the "now he's back" part as "now he's black", which would have been quite a change.
A while ago, I had feelings for two people but after some serious thinking I realised that only had feelings for one of them. You need to do the same. Ask yourself Who you really love, though it should already be obvious... For whomever you don't pick, politely let them know.
It's normal, though most people reject is as not normal. Being in an honest, loving relationship with more than one person is called polyamory, but it's definitely not for everyone. Most people can't deal with the jealousy when their partner also loves someone else.