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My husband is the man im in love with but we fight a lot lately and he makes me hate him sometimes a lot! I just dont even want to be around him at times... Is that totally bad?
Someone once told me " love shouldn't be hard " I say that's crap! My husband and I love and absolutely adore each other! However, we have children, jobs etc....... Life happens and sometimes we forget we're on the same side. Fighting sucks no doubt about it, remember if you fight there is a reason, try and think about the REAL reason your angry, often times we fight about silly things and never understand the REAL hurt behind the petty fights. All you can do is make efforts to try and understand him and most of all your own feelings. Love is the hardest thing I've ever done, but it's the most rewarding thing in the world when it's right! Hang in there sweetie!!!!!!
It doesnt matter if you love him or not if he doesnt treat you right you shouldnt be with him simples!
That's EXACTLY the same thing I'm going through!!!! My husband is flat out cruel at times and i just do not want to be around him whatsoever! I love him with all of my heart but sometimes he hurts me so deeply that I just can't even look at him. I really don't know if it's normal or not but I can definitely relate!
Get counseling. You can begin to argue so much that it becomes the whole relationship. Break the pattern now.
It doesn't mean it's not love. True love is hard too. If you guys really love each other you must find out why it's happening and be willing to fix things even if it's hard.
I think that if you two are arguing about some useless stuff then he's probably going through something and it's just a phrase. and you shouldn't let it bother you too much bc you know that you love each other. but if the arguements are more intense and serious then that's definitely something worth having a serious conversation about. hope that some what helps. wishing you the best of luck.