Is it normal to be in a sexless marriage?

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A sexless marriage is a marriage in which little or no sexual activity occurs between the two spouses. I have been married for 35 years and we are both in our early sixties. My wife is tall (five foot ten inches), glasses, blue eyes, slim and attractive, 36C breasts with large pink areola, nice long legs, very nice big white arse, hairy pussy. She is not unattractive. I stopped fucking her and for the last 25 years have been masturbating, sucking cock and swallowing cum without her knowledge. How do other people in a sexless marriage deal with the situation?

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  • thegypsysailor
    7 years ago | pl

    Dude if you haven't figured it out in 25 YEARS what do you expect from us?

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    • NeuroNeptunian
      7 years ago | pl

      I second this question and would like to add that I hope this is a troll because otherwise wtf ew dude.

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        7 years ago | pl

        This is how I live my life.

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        • green_boogers
          7 years ago | pl

          I think the best thing to do is to move into a separate bedroom. Keep a stack of porn under your bed for masturbation pleasure. The two of you are too old to split up. It would be a financial disaster, and prospects for for meeting a whore 42 years your junior are very limited.

          It's a rough situation, but it is survivable.

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          • Anonymous Post Author
            7 years ago | pl

            We do have separate bedrooms. I use my computer to surf the web for pornography and erotica. I am not looking for a younger woman. The advantage of gay sex over heterosexual sex is it is cheap, readily available and does not involve any emotional commitment.

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        • thegypsysailor
          7 years ago | pl

          Pretty damn pathetic.

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
    7 years ago | pl

    dont yall ask this bout once a week?

    heres a hint:

    NO IT STILL AINT FUCKIN NORMAL

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago | pl

    So why are you still together? I'd love to hear her side of this story.

    Anyone with any sense would get out of a marriage like this unless there are a lot of other positive things keeping you together

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago | pl

      This is the sort of insightful comment I would expect from you.
      Just because the physical aspect of the relationship between my wife and myself has died does not mean we do not care for one another.

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      • Ellenna
        7 years ago | pl

        You didn't say anything about her except her physical appearance so how is anyone reading your post supposed to know there's anything positive in the relationship?

        Do you care enough for her to keep her informed of your extra marital sexual activities?

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          7 years ago | pl

          I care enough about her to make sure she has no idea as to how I am meeting my sexual needs.
          If my wife were having casual random sex with other men then I would not have an issue with this as long as she made sure that I knew nothing about it.

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          • Ellenna
            7 years ago | pl

            Obviously honesty is not important to you

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              7 years ago | pl

              Don't ask, don't tell.

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          • ODED_OBLITERATE
            7 years ago | pl

            Oded here, do not even try to challenge my knowledge of the human relations. You will lose. Stand down, listen. This case is severe. It is a major miscommunication. The best thing to do in your unfortunate case is to come clean. About everything. Afterall, with the information you provided it seems as though your love is there. With that said, it should all work out.

            Oded....out

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  • rrmalone
    4 years ago | pl

    Introduce her to a young, hung male friend. Get her to accidentally see him showering and sporting a 12 inch thick young chock. Join them for the shower. Trust me, you both will have a wonderful sex life.
    BTW: if she is not interested in your hung friend, pay him for weekly blowjobs at your pleasure

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    7 years ago | pl

    Fourteen people think this is normal

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  • CDmale4fem
    7 years ago | pl

    Well I had my first wife that died from eating poison mushrooms, my 2nd wife died from a fractured skull- she wouldnt eat her mushrooms.

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  • CDmale4fem
    7 years ago | pl

    You could always do what I did once, while my wife was asleep, I got her lingerie and found something I liked, her things fit me perfect, then when she woke up in the morning, I was asleep on the couch when she woke me up and asked me what I was doing, I told her I had no idea, just needed a way to get her attention. We hadnt talked about our sex life in months or years even. She told me she would always need more than one guy in her life to be happy, so I packed my clothes and her lingerie and I left.

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  • jr__
    7 years ago | pl

    Oh.

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago | pl

    Why don't you talk to her about it? Say, "baby, gimme some of that hot monkey love"!

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    • Beep_Beep
      7 years ago | pl

      That's what creeps say. But since nothing else has worked, I suppose it is worth trying. She'll probably just punch him in the face.

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  • CountessDouche
    7 years ago | pl

    Maybe you should find a random website and spam about it constantly...no wait, you already tried that.

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  • flyingnostalgia
    7 years ago | pl

    So,... you are married to a woman but practice homosexuality... logic at its best!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago | pl

      I see myself as being a bisexual rather than a homosexual. I masturbate on a daily basis usually using pornography and erotica involving women. I have been known to go to stripclubs.

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      • flyingnostalgia
        7 years ago | pl

        So being bisexual gives you the right to cheat on your wife?

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          7 years ago | pl

          How would me giving up sucking on cock benefit my wife?

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