I have the exact same thing. I have been in a loving relationship for 4 years now and I am perfectly happy.
However especially one particular girl who seems to float in and out of my life has really made a fairly large impression on me.
I myself have not discussed this with my girlfriend but she is aware there is some chemistry between me and the other woman. Even though the sometimes refers to it sarcastically she does not feel threatened by it at all and even mocks me about feeling this way at times.
What I am trying to say is that especially men are very easily infatuated by attractive women but when in a stable relationship in which such urges are discussed in a rational way this doesn't have to be a problem.
It is nature that causes these infatuations and not emotional and/or mental attachment, as opposed to what it is like when being in a relationship.
Is it normal to be in a relationship, but have crushes on others?
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I have the exact same thing. I have been in a loving relationship for 4 years now and I am perfectly happy.
However especially one particular girl who seems to float in and out of my life has really made a fairly large impression on me.
I myself have not discussed this with my girlfriend but she is aware there is some chemistry between me and the other woman. Even though the sometimes refers to it sarcastically she does not feel threatened by it at all and even mocks me about feeling this way at times.
What I am trying to say is that especially men are very easily infatuated by attractive women but when in a stable relationship in which such urges are discussed in a rational way this doesn't have to be a problem.
It is nature that causes these infatuations and not emotional and/or mental attachment, as opposed to what it is like when being in a relationship.