Is it normal to be ignored on dating sites?

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Hello! I am a bisexual male that has a huge dilemma with making friends; let alone a girl or boy friend. I am a very quiet, full of emotions kind of guy. I am not adventurous or attracted to loud areas such as dance clubs or concerts. I usually try sites to socialize but there are just so many snarls and road blocks. I tend to always be honest, sometimes too honest and open. Yet when I am neither I get worse results on these sites. So is it normal for a romantic gamer to feel out of place on these dating sites? I have yet to click a profile that says they are looking for a guy like me...so what do you think?

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  • AngelofMercy
    9 years ago | pl

    I'll be your date, I been with all kinds honey. I was with a guy with 3 Balls once. It's was hard to put the condom on.

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    • anti-hero
      9 years ago | pl

      I blocked you on PM because you PMed me 16 times. After I didn't reply to the first 3 you should have taken the hint.

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    • LizardSkin
      9 years ago | pl

      Why is this some new condom brand that hugs testes?

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    • [Old Memory]
      9 years ago | pl

      Butt slut.

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      • Buttslut
        9 years ago | pl

        No I am a Butt slut! Not that tart.

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        • [Old Memory]
          9 years ago | pl

          HAHAH yes finally!! Someone used butt slut as a user name hahahah

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  • Nokiot9
    8 years ago | pl

    He is right. Sites make fake profiles with text emulation software and fake people manning them to grab subs from desperate guys. 90% of dating sites do it, especially the ones u link to from porn sites lol. Even adultfriend finder and match.com do it. Even tinder does it. Im the same way as you though. Bi. A bit introverted. And don't like bars and things. It's difficult to meet people when ur like this and don't go to school or have a job where you meet a lot of new people everyday. I meet a lot of my friends on tinder though, inspite of all the fake profiles. You just gotta know how to spot them and weed em out. If a girl or guy is way too hot to be on a dating site (they're usually fake) if they only have ONE pic attached to their profile And tell u to text them because their profile is broken and they text u from an out of state area code, ITS A FAKE! Don't wast your money on dating sites. It's almost impossible to find people that are under 30 that are real and not ugly as sin. People go on sites like this for a reason. Wether it's because they're not good looking, have a drinking problem, has a busy job, doesn't like busy places, or because they have issues socializing.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago | pl

    Most of the profiles on dating websites are fake profiles of very attractive girls to lure in desperate lonely men to pay for accounts which usually results in them being completely ignored anyway which further smashes their self esteem and self worth into smithereens.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago | pl

    Are you any of the following/have any of the following:

    - Physically attractive (above average).
    - Wealthy.
    - Some form of status or ability that most people don't.

    If not, then there's your problem.

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    • Sog
      9 years ago | pl

      Nope, I have all three of those things and I still get ignored on dating sites.

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      • AngelofMercy
        9 years ago | pl

        Aw how sad. If your hot i'll pay attention to you. And if you have some money. Even better. You'll be lovin this juicy ass!

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        • Sog
          9 years ago | pl

          Um thanks... I think?

          Just for the record here, this isn't my story and I'm not bisexual.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago | pl

    dating sites are a waste of time.

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  • Holzman_67
    9 years ago | pl

    Yeah ive been ignored on there the last 4 years

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  • Happy_PoopSmear
    9 years ago | pl

    No, losers often bitch and whine they can't get dates in real life....if you strike out on a computer too, where other losers won't even talk to you, it proves you're an even bigger loser than you thought.

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