Is it normal to be horrified after sex?

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I am an 18 year old male, I have had 14 sexual partners in my life time. Regrettably, most have been fledgling relationships that have ended horribly due to sex. I Usually have great success when I pursue a girl I like. Things go great until my normal sexual drive brings things to the point of sex. Now, I am a guy so once I am to this point I am fully aroused and ready to have sex so it has normally happened. I am always safe, even reiterating my fear to the girl I am with prior to any sexual activity. Nevertheless, once my primal needs are satisfied, I fall into a deep guilt and I become absolutely horrified of becoming a father and getting tied down. I have spent vast amounts of money on "morning after pills" even though I always wear a condom. I push the girl away emotionally for fear of becoming a father. I will sleep for only an hour or so at a time, barely eat and become deeply depressed and seriously angry until I learn of the girl getting her period. Then it seems like the cycle repeats itself. Is it normal for me to feel this guilty, horrified, scared or just plain awful after having normal safe sex? please help me!

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  • XxKatiexX
    12 years ago

    Wowwww...Shouldn't be having sex before marriage then! and you seem like a prick

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  • moomus
    12 years ago

    Well you got to work out why you feel so bad about being a father. Did your father not stick around? Or do you not feel you are good enough to be one? At least you know what you are doing and acknowledge its a problem, the best thing to do is figure why it is you feel this way and what is so bad about fatherhood to make you act this way, then hopefully you can deal with the issue and not get into any more bad relationships. No ones saying you have to be a dad, ever, but it's not healthy to chase away potential relationships due to your fear. Also it's not fair in the women you get involved with.

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  • hunter.shawn
    12 years ago

    Any suggestions on how to go about that?^^

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  • moomus
    12 years ago

    Not normal. You've got to figure out why you feel this way.

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