Fundamentalist religions have always been run by old men whose main interest is controlling people and who are jealous of young people.
Your feelings are completely normal, and your anger about how your religion refuses to acknowledge that sexual urges are natural is understandable. However, that anger is not healthy or helpful. Clearly you have access to the internet, and so it should be very easy for you to find accurate information about sex, your body and what's going on in your head at the moment.
Fundamentalist religions can have two contrary effects on how those raised in them view sex. On the one hand, being raised in a sex-negative culture can make it impossible for women in particular to enjoy sex. In extreme cases, it can result in something called vaginismus, which is where the muscles around the vagina clamp shut and make penetrative sex very uncomfortable or even impossible. However, being raised in a culture where sex is a huge taboo and never discussed can also make it highly alluring. I know from experience that the hell-fire preacher who has a son or daughter who's very promiscuous is not limited to lurid fiction.
Personally, I'm convinced that all versions of the Great Sky Fairy are total BS. But if you prefer to believe in JHVH and you've been taught that He doesn't want you to have sexual urges or think sexual thoughts, then you clearly have some work to do in resolving this conflict.
The solution to all this self-deprecating religiously induced shame and sickness? Nudism. It will heal your soul fast and it's all non-sexual. Your sense of body acceptance will skyrocket. I'm a nudist. Our nude volleyball team could use a spirited young woman like the OP to lift our spirits and inspire us to victory.
So Booj. Why don't you come down to our nude beach next time you're on the Atlantic's western shore? I always have a cooler of cold Heineken at the ready.
"I'm convinced that all versions of the Great Sky Fairy are total BS."
Given that we have zero evidence either way, and the vastness and complexity of the universe, that's and increadibly arrogant thing to say Booj.
I can respect agnostics because I have been one, but to be convinced in any direction is just silly imho. We have no answers and we don't even have any valid theories for what we are, where we are or why we are here.
Is it normal to be horny a lot?
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Fundamentalist religions have always been run by old men whose main interest is controlling people and who are jealous of young people.
Your feelings are completely normal, and your anger about how your religion refuses to acknowledge that sexual urges are natural is understandable. However, that anger is not healthy or helpful. Clearly you have access to the internet, and so it should be very easy for you to find accurate information about sex, your body and what's going on in your head at the moment.
Fundamentalist religions can have two contrary effects on how those raised in them view sex. On the one hand, being raised in a sex-negative culture can make it impossible for women in particular to enjoy sex. In extreme cases, it can result in something called vaginismus, which is where the muscles around the vagina clamp shut and make penetrative sex very uncomfortable or even impossible. However, being raised in a culture where sex is a huge taboo and never discussed can also make it highly alluring. I know from experience that the hell-fire preacher who has a son or daughter who's very promiscuous is not limited to lurid fiction.
Personally, I'm convinced that all versions of the Great Sky Fairy are total BS. But if you prefer to believe in JHVH and you've been taught that He doesn't want you to have sexual urges or think sexual thoughts, then you clearly have some work to do in resolving this conflict.
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The solution to all this self-deprecating religiously induced shame and sickness? Nudism. It will heal your soul fast and it's all non-sexual. Your sense of body acceptance will skyrocket. I'm a nudist. Our nude volleyball team could use a spirited young woman like the OP to lift our spirits and inspire us to victory.
So Booj. Why don't you come down to our nude beach next time you're on the Atlantic's western shore? I always have a cooler of cold Heineken at the ready.
I really have big desire toward old women
"I'm convinced that all versions of the Great Sky Fairy are total BS."
Given that we have zero evidence either way, and the vastness and complexity of the universe, that's and increadibly arrogant thing to say Booj.
I can respect agnostics because I have been one, but to be convinced in any direction is just silly imho. We have no answers and we don't even have any valid theories for what we are, where we are or why we are here.