r u joking??!!! that would take all the fun out of dating, they r already best friends and probability-wise there are 2 possibilities either they date or they don't date, if they are best friends already what's wrong with finding out slowly if the guy really the guy of her dreams, nothing in the world is certain you know. haha i don't think im a hopeless romantic but to me the uncertainty, the trouble or the emotions we go through are all part of the falling in love experience.
if you ask him now he might say no, if you just go with the flow if might also say no... i say go with the flow and enjoy every second of living this crush. also the fact that they are best friends just means to me that they can take it slow. Sometimes the strongest love are the ones that we take for granted but realize later in life...
btw im a guy and although i wish i was blonde im not :P
how can that be??? the human psyche is so much more complicated than that and being that love is one of the strongest emotions of all there are radically different responses to love especially in different contexts.
Just like morals cannot be separated into right and wrong, black and white, love can't be separated into like her and like her not
it all depends on how you define your own "hints", hints for some might be to just kiss the other person but for another person a hint might be just to give a warm smile. I don't think the latter would be any good whilst the former might be too strong. hints always to depend on the context/situation but since the op is already his best friend it is very easy for her to 'hint' while someone else who doesn't know the guy might require a more direct course of action
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What the fuck is wrong with you? I'm guessing you're some dumb blonde bitch.
"Keep doing it till he gets a "hint""
Or he could find someone who's not an idiot and who will tell him straight in the face how she feels.
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r u joking??!!! that would take all the fun out of dating, they r already best friends and probability-wise there are 2 possibilities either they date or they don't date, if they are best friends already what's wrong with finding out slowly if the guy really the guy of her dreams, nothing in the world is certain you know. haha i don't think im a hopeless romantic but to me the uncertainty, the trouble or the emotions we go through are all part of the falling in love experience.
if you ask him now he might say no, if you just go with the flow if might also say no... i say go with the flow and enjoy every second of living this crush. also the fact that they are best friends just means to me that they can take it slow. Sometimes the strongest love are the ones that we take for granted but realize later in life...
btw im a guy and although i wish i was blonde im not :P
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Just reading this makes me want to kill myself...go with the flow my ass...either he likes her or not.
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how can that be??? the human psyche is so much more complicated than that and being that love is one of the strongest emotions of all there are radically different responses to love especially in different contexts.
Just like morals cannot be separated into right and wrong, black and white, love can't be separated into like her and like her not
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Okay...what the hell is the point of "hints" then? In my opinion that's just god damn annoying.
"I have an idea, let me waste my time by giving some hints to a girl which she will probably never figure out."
Then again..maybe that's just me.
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it all depends on how you define your own "hints", hints for some might be to just kiss the other person but for another person a hint might be just to give a warm smile. I don't think the latter would be any good whilst the former might be too strong. hints always to depend on the context/situation but since the op is already his best friend it is very easy for her to 'hint' while someone else who doesn't know the guy might require a more direct course of action