that'd be the last thing I would want to do. I'm pretty sure he knows I like touching his feet when we are drunk though. when we went camping, it was really cold and he and I were in the tent and he had no socks on and he said, "damn my feet are cold." and right when I heard that, "I took both my hands and started rubbing his feet to get them warm, he didn't seem to mind.. 5 minutes after is when we layed down to sleep and I started to massage his back"
I'm just going to tell you like this.. That's some gay ass shit. I had a friend when I was younger and we used to something similar when I'd sleep over her house but at the time I didn't see it as gay. Just like you said you came to the realization that your gay, at first it didn't occur to you, then thought crossed your mind. Maybe he's gay and hasn't come to that realization yet because what you both are doing is very intimate. I don't see a straight guy being ok with that even with a close friend. I think thats normal to do something like that with someone you have a crush on but if hes not even considering he's gay I don't think you should confront him with this. It could just shock him, cause him to do something extreme and jeopardize your relationship. I can only based this on my experience since I went through something like that too and all I can say is somebody got smacked and a friendship was lost.
So in short just enjoy it while your looking for someone to be in a real relationship with.
I really appreciate your response. that is exactly why I have never brought the events up to him when we were sober, I didn't want the consequence to be negative and cause a loss of friendship. Its just truly frustrating not knowing what this "thing" we are doing is because it doesn't seem like something a straight dude would let another guy do to him..
is it normal to be gay and massage your straight best friend?
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Maybe hes too drunk to realize whats up and when he wakes up he doesn't remember, I'd ask him
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that'd be the last thing I would want to do. I'm pretty sure he knows I like touching his feet when we are drunk though. when we went camping, it was really cold and he and I were in the tent and he had no socks on and he said, "damn my feet are cold." and right when I heard that, "I took both my hands and started rubbing his feet to get them warm, he didn't seem to mind.. 5 minutes after is when we layed down to sleep and I started to massage his back"
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I'm just going to tell you like this.. That's some gay ass shit. I had a friend when I was younger and we used to something similar when I'd sleep over her house but at the time I didn't see it as gay. Just like you said you came to the realization that your gay, at first it didn't occur to you, then thought crossed your mind. Maybe he's gay and hasn't come to that realization yet because what you both are doing is very intimate. I don't see a straight guy being ok with that even with a close friend. I think thats normal to do something like that with someone you have a crush on but if hes not even considering he's gay I don't think you should confront him with this. It could just shock him, cause him to do something extreme and jeopardize your relationship. I can only based this on my experience since I went through something like that too and all I can say is somebody got smacked and a friendship was lost.
So in short just enjoy it while your looking for someone to be in a real relationship with.
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I really appreciate your response. that is exactly why I have never brought the events up to him when we were sober, I didn't want the consequence to be negative and cause a loss of friendship. Its just truly frustrating not knowing what this "thing" we are doing is because it doesn't seem like something a straight dude would let another guy do to him..