40% of your options (2 of them) point to the same misconception about women. In my experience most of them really do want a nice guy, as long as he can prove not to be a total bore (I'll dare say even more: they desperately seek one in secret). There are a couple out there who just want to be mistreated by douches, but they are not as many as one is lead to believe. It might be the case that you've always come across the ones who fit the stereotype, so you may try working on your guides for picking them as a start, but if you ask me, you sound too focused on how nice you are acting when you should be paying attention to other things you might be doing wrong.
I agree that they really do want a nice guy, but they also want exciting or interesting, most females it seems rely on the guy to be the interesting one, with things to do. It just so happens that the assholes and bad boys have a lot of shit going on for the most part. And they've gotten good at pretending to be good guys for a minute or two.
I don't dwell on acting nice, I just try to keep myself open and approachable. I ask open ended questions that usually start conversations and keep things relaxed. Once i know a little about them, i ask them out. But the answer is almost always no.
Is it normal to be friend-zoned this much?
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40% of your options (2 of them) point to the same misconception about women. In my experience most of them really do want a nice guy, as long as he can prove not to be a total bore (I'll dare say even more: they desperately seek one in secret). There are a couple out there who just want to be mistreated by douches, but they are not as many as one is lead to believe. It might be the case that you've always come across the ones who fit the stereotype, so you may try working on your guides for picking them as a start, but if you ask me, you sound too focused on how nice you are acting when you should be paying attention to other things you might be doing wrong.
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I agree that they really do want a nice guy, but they also want exciting or interesting, most females it seems rely on the guy to be the interesting one, with things to do. It just so happens that the assholes and bad boys have a lot of shit going on for the most part. And they've gotten good at pretending to be good guys for a minute or two.
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I kid you not, this has been a real conversation.
"Guys fucking suck, why can't i find a decent guy like you?!"
"You can, want to go out sometime?"
"Mmm, no thanks. I wanna keep you as a friend."
*Facepalm*
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That's her way of saying she wouldnt have sex with you if you paid her.
I don't dwell on acting nice, I just try to keep myself open and approachable. I ask open ended questions that usually start conversations and keep things relaxed. Once i know a little about them, i ask them out. But the answer is almost always no.