Ok, I am just going to suggest this. When on your next date, don't act the way you usually do, infact, act the opposite. Don't act like the friendly person you tend to be, as that surely isn't working.
I say this because I have heard guys say that they have changed their attitude completely like this, regardless of how reluctant they were to doing it, and it made them successful in finding a partner. Kind of sad, but meh. According to some people it works more than the good guy routine.
You have to admit though, what's the point of even going on the date then if you can't be yourself? You're essentially getting someone to like a persona and not the real you. If she does actually like the persona then you're going to have to pretty much keep it up until the relationship ends. I don't think that's a good way to go to be honest, maybe to get a one night stand sure, but not an actual relationship.
Is it normal to be friend-zoned this much?
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Ok, I am just going to suggest this. When on your next date, don't act the way you usually do, infact, act the opposite. Don't act like the friendly person you tend to be, as that surely isn't working.
I say this because I have heard guys say that they have changed their attitude completely like this, regardless of how reluctant they were to doing it, and it made them successful in finding a partner. Kind of sad, but meh. According to some people it works more than the good guy routine.
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You have to admit though, what's the point of even going on the date then if you can't be yourself? You're essentially getting someone to like a persona and not the real you. If she does actually like the persona then you're going to have to pretty much keep it up until the relationship ends. I don't think that's a good way to go to be honest, maybe to get a one night stand sure, but not an actual relationship.
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Yep.