Is it normal to be falling for my ex while involved with another man?
i have had a great long distance relationship for a year. he is wonderful, and perfect, i truly love him. we even have plans to see eachother in a few short months. everything seemed so perfect, until recently i started hanging out with my ex. he was a little abusive when we first dated, and that was part of the reason we broke it off. he flirts with many people in a way, but is also in a relationship. we don't hang out alone, but even with friends there we are very close. this way normal, but today when we were apart from the group for a bit he was holding my hand and stroking my arm..everything about his body language says he wants something. i am confused, because i love my boyfriend very much and don't want to cheat on him, but i feel very strongly for my ex lately. is this normal?