Is it normal to be exta-jealous about everthing my gf does?

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My problem is being jealous about my gf...not the normal jealous guy you probably thinking about...i get angry at almost everything single thing my girlfriend does, that envolves a "male" that is not me. Stupid things, but that really piss me off.

For example:
I get angry with the simple fact i know she is talking to another guy on msn...

I get angry for her watching films because i don't want her to look at other possible guys that she might find better than me

I get angry if she shows any kind of admiration for another guy that not me, basically.

The last one is I get sad for she likes music, and admire certain singers, wth... I get angry she tells me "i like this singer" (but only if he's a male xD)

So, i'm damn paranoid...i think. What now?

Is It Normal?
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  • Mel
    13 years ago | pl

    You have major control issues, I feel sorry for her. If you dont calm down & realize youre being rediculous, you WILL lose her to someone else.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    Talking to guys on msn !!!!!!?!?!?

    I consider that cheating my brother

    wtf they talking about?? Sex??

    I say you choke her

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  • LiamHale
    13 years ago | pl

    Not normal dude! You're being way too paranoid. Trust is key to a lasting relationship man. You've gotta loosen up.

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago | pl

    On your way to becoming an abusive fuck wad. Good luck with that.

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  • kellstar
    13 years ago | pl

    You will loose her and u will only have yourself to blame.
    Jealousy is normal but not to that extent, I would call it severe. She may stop telling u things because she will get scared of your reaction and jealousy and then there will be nothing for her to talk to u about.
    In your case, not normal
    Back off, it's normal to have friends and talk to the opposite sex and to not like her watching movies because she may see someone she likes better than you? She couldn't have them anyway. She's with YOU so there must be an attraction she has for YOU

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  • thinkingaboutit
    11 years ago | pl

    hhhahahaaha no, no you INDEED sound like the average jealous male.

    You dont think too highly of yourself, thats the true problem.

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  • ploop
    11 years ago | pl

    k that is a bit insecure, but as long as your not taking it out on her you will be fine. and if you talk to her about it she might find it cute.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    insecurity issues much?

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  • gabb2get
    12 years ago | pl

    Sounds like my ex

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  • missmeow
    13 years ago | pl

    Sounds like you have a hella low esteem. Get some confidence, if she's dating you she's with you for a reason. Unless you keep doing this to her lol then she would be stupid to stay with you.

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  • kayt93
    13 years ago | pl

    Did she do something for you to feel that way?

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    I am as well your not alone

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  • sqwert7889
    13 years ago | pl

    That is definitely a dealbreaker for most women. If you want to keep her, CHILL out. Actions speak louder than words, and it seems she's putting up with you because, guess what? She WANTS to be with you-- although I wouldn't blame her if she dumped you soon. Stop being so insecure.

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  • crazygood
    13 years ago | pl

    totally normal

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  • lalala26
    13 years ago | pl

    get over it.

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  • smartiepants
    13 years ago | pl

    It's perfectly normal for her to have friendly relationships with other guys. If you want to have a healthy relationship with her, back off! If you're still feeling really jealous, talk to her about what's going on. The communication will help a lot!

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