so you said she was a freshmen in high school and the guy was 19?
so he was was out of high school and getting engaged to a freshman?
isn't that already sorta creepy?
4 years diff isn't a big deal, but when you are under 20 it kinda is, since physical maturation and emotional maturity developed a lot during those years, and if it's going to hold your friend back, I'd personally advise her against it, shes only 16, she shouldn't be making choices like that so young, especially since marriages are intended to be life long, she should live her life then later on if she feels the same way about him she should go for it.
Is it normal to be engaged?
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so you said she was a freshmen in high school and the guy was 19?
so he was was out of high school and getting engaged to a freshman?
isn't that already sorta creepy?
4 years diff isn't a big deal, but when you are under 20 it kinda is, since physical maturation and emotional maturity developed a lot during those years, and if it's going to hold your friend back, I'd personally advise her against it, shes only 16, she shouldn't be making choices like that so young, especially since marriages are intended to be life long, she should live her life then later on if she feels the same way about him she should go for it.