Is it normal to be embarrassed to talk about someone's crush on you?

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I have huge self-esteem issues. Whenever someone is attracted to me, I feel embarrassed telling my friends because I think they're thinking "Ew, as if someone would like her." Even though my friends think I'm "pretty," I'm unable to talk about people who crush on me because I still think I'm ugly and that other people will think "She's not good enough to have a crush on." As a result, I keep the crush stories to myself and feel isolated.. Also, if someone points out someone's crush on me, I turn red -- but not because I'm attracted to the person, just because I am embarrassed that other people are evaluating me sexually/romantically and that I think I'm ugly? I also was too embarrassed to tell my friend that I didn't like him romantically, because I thought he would think "Ew, like anyone crushes on her" even though I KNEW 100% that he had a crush on me. Is this normal?

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  • sarah_13
    12 years ago | pl

    Look i dont know you but i bet you are beautiful :) i go red alllllll the time if some even says the word crush i look like a tomato :) look doont make the same mistake i did.there was a boy once and his name was sam he was the first person that i had ever found out who liked me. Andi didnt like him but every one thought i did because i went red lol so i went out with him for a month and then i dumped him and it crushed him and i still feel like shit about it :( so maybe see a syciatresed or ask your mum about it hope i helped :)

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