I'm 19 and a virgin, too! That's normal. But I'm a girl.
You being scared of sex, that's normal too. I think it's the idea of penetration that's the scary part. Because if I were a guy interested in other men, I'd be scared too because anal hurts. So does penetrating the lady bits so I think that's where most people's anxiety comes from, the potential pain of having sex for the first time. About your friend, if he keeps coming onto you like that, just see where it goes. If you're worried that he's just trying to out you or something, let him make the first move. But as far as I know, no straight male will talk like that with another guy.
Is it normal to be embarassed/scared about sex?
← View full post
I'm 19 and a virgin, too! That's normal. But I'm a girl.
You being scared of sex, that's normal too. I think it's the idea of penetration that's the scary part. Because if I were a guy interested in other men, I'd be scared too because anal hurts. So does penetrating the lady bits so I think that's where most people's anxiety comes from, the potential pain of having sex for the first time. About your friend, if he keeps coming onto you like that, just see where it goes. If you're worried that he's just trying to out you or something, let him make the first move. But as far as I know, no straight male will talk like that with another guy.
Hope every thing works out for you.