Sorry to hear that, I was just spitballing suggestions based on the majority of cases and from my experience (my sister has been abused and raped, and it's more or less completely her fault for hanging out with bad people, because she'd rather hang out with bad people than no people), as I have no idea what your situation is.
And I can kind of see your point about pressing charges, but if you are living it over in your head anyway, i feel like living it over in one trial, and seeing the man go to prison would make me feel better at least. And in my mind, I would tell myself that karma got to him giving him what he deserved, and I could live with myself and move on, instead of trying to go through life knowing that the person who wronged me so badly is able to do so and get away with it, and can be doing it to other people.
For some reason i thought you were asking for suggestions though, silly me for thinking a girl would want that though. Good luck with your problems, i hope you figure it out.
Is it normal to be depressed even on meds?
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• I can't exercise or take self defence classes right now due to my disability, although there are measures I can and do take for my safety.
• I wasn't abused and raped because I put myself in a situation to be. It happened because somebody abused and raped me.
• Pressing charges doesn't guarantee closure or stability; in fact, sometimes the process can be very traumatic for victims.
• I'm already bulimic.
• I'm not going to be happy with the way I look until I'm at an unhealthy weight.
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Sorry to hear that, I was just spitballing suggestions based on the majority of cases and from my experience (my sister has been abused and raped, and it's more or less completely her fault for hanging out with bad people, because she'd rather hang out with bad people than no people), as I have no idea what your situation is.
And I can kind of see your point about pressing charges, but if you are living it over in your head anyway, i feel like living it over in one trial, and seeing the man go to prison would make me feel better at least. And in my mind, I would tell myself that karma got to him giving him what he deserved, and I could live with myself and move on, instead of trying to go through life knowing that the person who wronged me so badly is able to do so and get away with it, and can be doing it to other people.
For some reason i thought you were asking for suggestions though, silly me for thinking a girl would want that though. Good luck with your problems, i hope you figure it out.