Thanks for the replies both of you. For me its more more like, once I get X then I'll have Y and Y is what's missing in my life. Be it friends, respect, freedom etc. Then after I do X either I don't get Y or Y doesn't really matter as much as thought it would.
The other thing too that gets me I think is that after the goal is achieved and the hard battle won, I'm back to my depressingly routine and boring life. I don't have anything pushing my or motivating me, and I just feel empty, incomplete, and like my soul has been crushed. I remember very well when I transfered schools being a 20 yr old man and feeling so depressed I had to cry which made me feel even more pathetic.
IIN to be depressed after achieving a goal
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Thanks for the replies both of you. For me its more more like, once I get X then I'll have Y and Y is what's missing in my life. Be it friends, respect, freedom etc. Then after I do X either I don't get Y or Y doesn't really matter as much as thought it would.
The other thing too that gets me I think is that after the goal is achieved and the hard battle won, I'm back to my depressingly routine and boring life. I don't have anything pushing my or motivating me, and I just feel empty, incomplete, and like my soul has been crushed. I remember very well when I transfered schools being a 20 yr old man and feeling so depressed I had to cry which made me feel even more pathetic.