I think a 9 year gap is a bit harsh.
Your conversation will be limited in too many areas.
You state its not so physical then what is appealing about her exactly? Just the 'unrestricted affection' affection towards you?
I think you need to take a step back and realize this young girl's idea of 'affection' may not be exactly how you feel. ie Its unlikely she'll move out with you, or obviously go out to any night clubs with you (for at least another 2 years) So the 'affection' is just limited to online chatting, or possibly over the phone.
You have already announced that her conversations (anime) are not the most exciting topics for you. But due to her age its going to be normally this type of talk in conversation. I hope you like Justin Bieber?!
Things like going out in the car, will bring her back to that childhood again. She'll probably put her iPod earplugs in and start singing. This to you could be easily seen as offensive, especially if you BOTH haven't even worked out where you are going.
Your 'role' in this will be extremely limited to immature conversations, and possibly the 'I hate that bitch friend of mine' type of talking. I'm pretty sure you'll get sick of it on day1.
Leave her to grow up normally with her own age group. As you say, in a few years she may be a beautiful young > woman.
I dont find the topic boring persay :) I just thought its 'normal' for a 15-year old and not something that makes you say 'wow, she is so much more mature than her age'.
Is it normal to be dating a 15-year-old at age 24?
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I think a 9 year gap is a bit harsh.
Your conversation will be limited in too many areas.
You state its not so physical then what is appealing about her exactly? Just the 'unrestricted affection' affection towards you?
I think you need to take a step back and realize this young girl's idea of 'affection' may not be exactly how you feel. ie Its unlikely she'll move out with you, or obviously go out to any night clubs with you (for at least another 2 years) So the 'affection' is just limited to online chatting, or possibly over the phone.
You have already announced that her conversations (anime) are not the most exciting topics for you. But due to her age its going to be normally this type of talk in conversation. I hope you like Justin Bieber?!
Things like going out in the car, will bring her back to that childhood again. She'll probably put her iPod earplugs in and start singing. This to you could be easily seen as offensive, especially if you BOTH haven't even worked out where you are going.
Your 'role' in this will be extremely limited to immature conversations, and possibly the 'I hate that bitch friend of mine' type of talking. I'm pretty sure you'll get sick of it on day1.
Leave her to grow up normally with her own age group. As you say, in a few years she may be a beautiful young > woman.
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I dont find the topic boring persay :) I just thought its 'normal' for a 15-year old and not something that makes you say 'wow, she is so much more mature than her age'.