Young Lady,
I would very much like to be polite with you, but by your responses, I feel that must say this:
YOU HAD BETTER CHANGE YOUR ATTITUDE AND CHANGE IT RIGHT FUCKING NOW!
These people are trying to help you, but you are being stubborn, close-minded and obnoxious to them.
As to your question, I feel that they are absolutely correct, that you need to speak with your boyfriend about this.
Furthermore, your entire spiel about marriage lasting longer, is plainly false. If you can't be comfortable talking about sex now, and you think that sex on your wedding night is going to be some fantastic experience, you are in for a big surprize. It will be the worst experience of your life.
I'll change my attitude when everyone else changes theirs! I'm tired of being picked on by people that think they know me.. when in reality, THEY DON'T! You guys don't even know my freaking name! So how can you know me? You don't! So hush up!
Why do I NEED to talk to him about something that should be private? I mean really? If it's private, then it should stay private.. I don't tell him that I do it every now and then.. so why should he?
Again, someone NOT reading the entire post before responding.. do you guys just filter everything when you read? Just read the things you WANT to read? We DO talk about sex.. we don't get discriptive seeing as neither of us have done it, but we do talk about it... maybe in an interesting way, but we still do... goodness, he picks on me cuz I was beyond scared to kiss him but I want kids somethin fierce.. he said, how do I expect to have kids if I'm terrified of little things like kissing? Ok? We do talk about it, just not the way you guys think... chill out..
In response to you comment,
I am not your Grandma but I know someone who knows your Grandma and who knows you. Your Grandma would like to send you a message, your Grandma knows more about Human sexuality than you do, otherwise you would not have been born.
I give in. You're right, I would like to ask everyone in the world to change their attitude right now, so that this fine young lady does not feel like she's being picked on and everyone can get to know her.
If you feel that this should be kept private, then why did you make it public?
Grandma would like you to know that if you don't begin to understand the reality of sex, your marriage will last only three days. ONE, TWO, THREE days, and you will still be a virgin.
Wow.. what's with everyone saying they know someone that knows me? No you don't.. My grandma might know that, as weird as that does sound, but she's not gonna lexture me on that..
I would like everyone to change their attitudes.. it's human nature to get defensive when being attacked.. and right now, I feel like everyone is attacking me... Why can't we all just talk like decent human beings?
Hey, I know about sex, ok? I do. Me and my boyfriend are choosing to wait till we're married.
I only asked this stupid question because I sometimes wonder if he does it and was wondering if it was normal for me to think of it like this.. I wasn't intending to ask him if he does, and I wasn't asking if everyone thought he was.. I was just curious if it was normal that I think about it a lot... that's it.
Why can't I ask a simple question anymore? =/
Talk like decent human beings? Is that what you call calling people dumbasses and retards?
You did ask a simple question, and like in a conversation, people gave their answers. And you flamed everyone for not giving you the answer you wanted. And you called them names for it.
Why do you think you're being picked on when you call people retards?
To answer your question, yes it is perfectly normal to be curious about it.
Please take this advice:
Don't keep it to yourself, talk to your boyfriend about it WHEN YOU'RE READY.
Is it normal to be curious if my boyfriend masturbates?
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Young Lady,
I would very much like to be polite with you, but by your responses, I feel that must say this:
YOU HAD BETTER CHANGE YOUR ATTITUDE AND CHANGE IT RIGHT FUCKING NOW!
These people are trying to help you, but you are being stubborn, close-minded and obnoxious to them.
As to your question, I feel that they are absolutely correct, that you need to speak with your boyfriend about this.
Furthermore, your entire spiel about marriage lasting longer, is plainly false. If you can't be comfortable talking about sex now, and you think that sex on your wedding night is going to be some fantastic experience, you are in for a big surprize. It will be the worst experience of your life.
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"Young lady?" What, are my grandma now?
I'll change my attitude when everyone else changes theirs! I'm tired of being picked on by people that think they know me.. when in reality, THEY DON'T! You guys don't even know my freaking name! So how can you know me? You don't! So hush up!
Why do I NEED to talk to him about something that should be private? I mean really? If it's private, then it should stay private.. I don't tell him that I do it every now and then.. so why should he?
Again, someone NOT reading the entire post before responding.. do you guys just filter everything when you read? Just read the things you WANT to read? We DO talk about sex.. we don't get discriptive seeing as neither of us have done it, but we do talk about it... maybe in an interesting way, but we still do... goodness, he picks on me cuz I was beyond scared to kiss him but I want kids somethin fierce.. he said, how do I expect to have kids if I'm terrified of little things like kissing? Ok? We do talk about it, just not the way you guys think... chill out..
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In response to you comment,
I am not your Grandma but I know someone who knows your Grandma and who knows you. Your Grandma would like to send you a message, your Grandma knows more about Human sexuality than you do, otherwise you would not have been born.
I give in. You're right, I would like to ask everyone in the world to change their attitude right now, so that this fine young lady does not feel like she's being picked on and everyone can get to know her.
If you feel that this should be kept private, then why did you make it public?
Grandma would like you to know that if you don't begin to understand the reality of sex, your marriage will last only three days. ONE, TWO, THREE days, and you will still be a virgin.
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Wow.. what's with everyone saying they know someone that knows me? No you don't.. My grandma might know that, as weird as that does sound, but she's not gonna lexture me on that..
I would like everyone to change their attitudes.. it's human nature to get defensive when being attacked.. and right now, I feel like everyone is attacking me... Why can't we all just talk like decent human beings?
Hey, I know about sex, ok? I do. Me and my boyfriend are choosing to wait till we're married.
I only asked this stupid question because I sometimes wonder if he does it and was wondering if it was normal for me to think of it like this.. I wasn't intending to ask him if he does, and I wasn't asking if everyone thought he was.. I was just curious if it was normal that I think about it a lot... that's it.
Why can't I ask a simple question anymore? =/
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Talk like decent human beings? Is that what you call calling people dumbasses and retards?
You did ask a simple question, and like in a conversation, people gave their answers. And you flamed everyone for not giving you the answer you wanted. And you called them names for it.
Why do you think you're being picked on when you call people retards?
To answer your question, yes it is perfectly normal to be curious about it.
Please take this advice:
Don't keep it to yourself, talk to your boyfriend about it WHEN YOU'RE READY.
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I think that you should offer everyone a HEARTFELT APOLOGY.
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I agree.
Sorry.... you ain't gonna get it XP