He almost certainly does, or if he doesn't only resists the urge because he thinks you would dislike it. I'd be surprised if any guy would dislike that their girlfriend masturbated. Presuming you are having sex then there shouldn't really be anything to fear in terms of being open with each other. If I were you I'd tell him that you do it; doing so would make you both feel more comfortable about it. You could try it together, to spice up sex.
The main thing to remember is: if it anything ever bothers you or makes you curious, you should always be able to ask/talk about it with him.
I know it's crappy advice, but there is no reason to be awkward. If you don't have sex he's DEFINITELY masturbating. I know all guys are different but the need for sex is pretty much a constant unless he's totally asexual, which I doubt. If he isn't having sex with you, he's having sex with his hands.
If you think it's going to be awkward, I'm guessing you don't talk about sex or sexually-related things with him. Is that correct?
If it was me, I wouldn't ask him IF he masturbates. I'd pose it a different way when the opportunity presents itself and say WHEN he masturbates or HOW he masturbates.
When will someone actually read a post before commenting... -_-
"We've talked about sex"
I think I said that twice in this post....
We kind of talk about it... nothing gross obviously, but usually we talk about like, "when we get married, yeah we're gonna have sex.." my friends have brought up some things about us if we were having sex, and that when we kinda talked.. cuz we were saying that we'd rather wait for our wedding night.
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He almost certainly does, or if he doesn't only resists the urge because he thinks you would dislike it. I'd be surprised if any guy would dislike that their girlfriend masturbated. Presuming you are having sex then there shouldn't really be anything to fear in terms of being open with each other. If I were you I'd tell him that you do it; doing so would make you both feel more comfortable about it. You could try it together, to spice up sex.
The main thing to remember is: if it anything ever bothers you or makes you curious, you should always be able to ask/talk about it with him.
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"Presuming you are having sex.." um...What part of "We've agreed to wait to have sex until we're married.." says we're having sex?? I mean, really..?
I don't want to ask him because I don't want to make it awkward...
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Sorry, TL;DR moment.
I know it's crappy advice, but there is no reason to be awkward. If you don't have sex he's DEFINITELY masturbating. I know all guys are different but the need for sex is pretty much a constant unless he's totally asexual, which I doubt. If he isn't having sex with you, he's having sex with his hands.
If you think it's going to be awkward, I'm guessing you don't talk about sex or sexually-related things with him. Is that correct?
If it was me, I wouldn't ask him IF he masturbates. I'd pose it a different way when the opportunity presents itself and say WHEN he masturbates or HOW he masturbates.
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When will someone actually read a post before commenting... -_-
"We've talked about sex"
I think I said that twice in this post....
We kind of talk about it... nothing gross obviously, but usually we talk about like, "when we get married, yeah we're gonna have sex.." my friends have brought up some things about us if we were having sex, and that when we kinda talked.. cuz we were saying that we'd rather wait for our wedding night.
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so you guys have mentioned sex, not talked about it, judging from the "nothing gross obviously" comment.
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Well yeah.. What do you expect us to say? O_o
Well, sorry for trying to help. Good luck.