Is it normal to be curious if my boyfriend masturbates?

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  • We're waiting till we're married to have sex. Just to point that out.

    We already are open with each other. We've shared absolutely everything! I know his biggest secrets and he knows mine. We're so open with each other and we have no problem telling each other things.

    And also, I don't judge anyone.. ever. That's actually the biggest thing that caught his interest about me. Because, before we were dating, he was always judged by people around him.. and when I was the only one that didn't judge him, that caught his interest. So no, I don't judge him. I never would. It's not my place.

    Anyways... I'm just looking forward to our wedding September 28th ^_^ Well... once he gets up the courage to talk to my dad.. =P haha Anyways....

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    • "We're waiting till we're married to have sex. Just to point that out."

      and that's perfectly fine.

      When you're ready for it, don't forget the list I mentioned. When I finally found the partner I was meant for... we started discussing intimate practices, i was a bit surprised to find there were things i liked that i never considered before.

      and there are still things i never found appealing and never will.

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      • Can I also add that, I love your username? I really do. It's cool ^_^

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      • Ok. Well I'll make that list..

        Seriously. That wasn't sarcasm.

        Btw, you may (or may not) be happy to know, that tonight I DID actually find out that my boyfriend DOES masturbate... I didn't straight up ask him, but we got on one subject that led to another that led to another.... so yeah... Now I know =P

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        • see?

          sometimes having something like that out in the open removes tension.

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          • A little bit... but still

            I mean, all my previous boyfriends only wanted that.. and when they figured out they wouldn't get it, they left me... so I'm still a bit edgy when it comes to him, but it's because I absolutely adore him and don't want to lose him.. I'm just afraid that that'll be all he wants (even though he told me it's not)
            I've loved this guy for 3 years.. 2 of those years, he absolutely HATED me.. and I knew it.. Only this past year have we ever talked and we've been dating now for 3 months. So it's a big thing for me to have the man of my dreams.. I just don't want to lose him now.. =/

            Sorry.. I'm in a weird mood right now..

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