Is it normal to be cruel,lie,and cheat on your spouse
I met my husband in dec 2007. In feb 2008 he found out he had throat cancer. I paid his deductible for surgery. Set up and paid for radiation therapy out of my check for almost two years. The entire time he is seeing a married woman whose mother lives right beside us.
He is still secretly texting and talking to her and other women. They all look alot like men., he thinks and speaks highly of them. Has an excuse as to why he still has their numbers I am invisible to my husband. He knows he degrades me. And neglects me. But still pretend he loves me.
But always always tells me how pathetic deranged and assumes the worst of me.
Is it normal to treat someone that married you and says they love you. But pisses them off that they have to help you in any way?