I think this is your biggest problem: "it's either a good-looking guy or a cute girl, nothing in between"
You're free to transition, but you're not free to determine how well you pass as the gender you transitioned into. There's no guarantee you'll be a cute girl, and at the risk of sounding like a huge asshole, the majority of MTF transgender people I've met do not make attractive women
Is it normal to be contemplating changing your gender?
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I think this is your biggest problem: "it's either a good-looking guy or a cute girl, nothing in between"
You're free to transition, but you're not free to determine how well you pass as the gender you transitioned into. There's no guarantee you'll be a cute girl, and at the risk of sounding like a huge asshole, the majority of MTF transgender people I've met do not make attractive women