Is it normal to be completely uninterested in sex?

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I am 24 years old. I have only had a few relationships (with both genders), in which I barely had sex. I could have had more if I wanted to... but I was kind of indifferent towards it, and I still am I guess.

It is not that I don't want to... It is more like I don't want to bother myself with it. I did enjoy the few times I had sex and I do watch porn every now and then... but it is just that I don't feel like making any effort at all to have sex. 2 of my partners have broken up with me because of this issue.

Even when I was a teenager, I didn't have this craving that everyone else seemed to have. It is as if the hormones didn't kick in at all.

All my friends go out to parties and bars to try to get laid. I am just completely uninterested in all that. I have been single for a long time already right now; and people are starting to worry about me. I don't care at all, but I kind of want a relationship just so people would shut up.

So, is this normal?

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  • goopyGoop
    10 years ago

    You are probably asexual.

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  • RomeoDeMontague
    10 years ago

    Good for you! It has too many complications. Best to just stay away.

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  • quentari
    10 years ago

    You just have a low sex drive. Normal, and also fairly common. It's only a problem when your partner has a different sex drive, which is obviously what has happened.

    I think there's aphrodisiacs and stuff you can take but that's totally up to you.

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  • U.O.E.N.O.
    10 years ago

    You could be asexual U.O.E.N.O. it.

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  • GuessWho
    10 years ago

    Yeah.
    It's such a shame that sex seems to be the only thing that most people care about in relationships these days.

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  • Maya05
    10 years ago

    I feel the same way towards sex. The act of sex just seems boring and uninteresting to me and I have no desire to have it. I can't explain why I am this way, I just am. It seems that is all anyone cares about. Everything always comes down to sex or something sexual and I just don't understand the fascination.

    This is probably more normal then you would think but I'm sure we are still in the minority. After all biologically we are supposed to want to have sex. :\

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