Is it normal to be called weak if..

Is it normal for my sister whom is 7 years older than me to make fun of me and call me weak when she saw me cry one day... I just lost my gf I loved alot and then on did poorly in school and had to drop out because of it... Is it normal for her to be so mean ... Is it wrong and called weak by society as being a guy crying? Why can't I cry I have emotions too I font usually cry but this time it really hit me...

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Based on 79 votes (22 yes)
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Comments ( 15 )
  • D-Effect25

    Dude.. I cried on the bus one time cuz I thought I lost my best friend. He was a brother to me. People thought we were gay cuz we were so close but we didn't care. We knew we weren't. But one day I screwed up and he stopped talking to me. It tore me up.. I normally am not that emotional like AT ALL! Let alone in public.. But it really got me.. I think it should be ok to be a cry guy every now and then.. Don't worry tho. I too have had my heart broken severely. Many have. It's ok to cry.

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  • Your post comes off as wimpy but you're allowed to feel so long as you don't indulge in self-pity.

    Dust yourself off and come back 10 times stronger. Take their breathe away ;)

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  • asdf90091

    It's considered to be considered wimpy for that, but that's one of the stereotypes in society I despise. There's nothing wrong with being heartbroken, but you can't just drop out of school and destroy your life because of it. Find someone you can talk to, get your feelings out, and move on.

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  • howaminotmyself

    There is nothing weak about having heart. And Valkeer said it well, dust yourself off and come back stronger.

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  • nobody_

    you're not weak because of crying over a girl..
    you're weak bacaues of dropping off school
    that's maybe the reason your sister called you weak!
    what's wrong with you?!
    put yourself together, get over her and get back in school!!

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  • TyLee

    Aww why is everyone being so mean? I think that you are right your sister was way out of line. You aren't weak you are normal for being upset about those things. You seem like a very nice guy. Don't let anyone (including your sis) get you down!

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  • wreckd

    You dropped out of school because of some girl? Sorry to say, but that wasn't the smartest thing to do and one day you will regret that.

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  • SoularWind

    Listen to yourself! Your a pussy bitch

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  • Cloud18c

    i think its pretty normal for your older sister to do this i don't think you should of dropped out at or you should be that traumetized by the break up. i think if anything shes trying to get you to prove her wrong and get you to stop thinking about your girlfriend its reversphycology i think that any way

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  • CrystalMoonlight

    My little borther is 10 and calls me weak, pffft. Just ignore your sister, you're not weak. ;)

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  • HSVWHO

    Yep ur not wrong for crying when hurt but for dropping out for a chick.

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  • aussiewolf

    hahaha... what SoularWind said.....

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  • sexiichick89

    Dude, ur a fucking pussy ass bitch. No joke. It's cool if you cry cause u like a girl or whatever, but fuck u for dropping out of school. Haha, u fucked ur life up for a bitch that doesn't even like u...smh

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  • Seriously?
    Why is this site being filled with people only looking for pity.
    You know that im right when I say your only looking for pity because your "question" was "IIN my sister is mean"
    Ofcourse its normal that people are mean.
    Either you are looking for pity/attention or you are extremely stupid.

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