Is it normal to be both dominate yet also submissive?
Ok, normally I am dominant by nature, I prefer to be independent and in control of everything in my life, basically I'm a control freak when it comes to everything about me..BUT at the same time I am equally submissive in my true nature,and for example if I'm around a strong natured man,or even another woman, I immediately secretly begin longing to submit to them and let them lead me. I'm not a split personality but I do have both natures equally and just wonder why this is? How can I be so strongwilled and independent with one person yet instantly (and secretly) need to be controlled by certain people,especially sexually??