Is it normal to be bored of my life?

Is it normal i'm bored of life? like, i'm sick and tired of living this routine hell. i pretty much know what's gonna happen next every day. and i'm mentally unaffected or not troubled by much so when something serious happens, it doesn't even bother me or i don't get excited for many things! i am absolutely mello 24/7. i want something huge to happen that will change me forever but i know that most likely won't happen because my life, once again, is so damned boring.

Is It Normal?
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  • Yeah me too. I often fantasize about packing up all my stuff and moving to another country to learn another language and about another culture ^_^

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  • Marry a black women, like me. :)

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    • I'm trying, baby. I'm trying.

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  • If boredom is the issue, I think you should go out of your way to deliberately try to change that. Add something new into your everyday regular routine/schedule. Maybe meet somebody, and do something that you've never done before. Not something harmful, but maybe something that is exciting, and could be memorable. Something that you can look back on years from now with a smile.

    I think there's really lots to do, you just have to search for it and be creative. Have you ever gone sky diving? I never have, but maybe you're the type that would love it. Do you hike? Maybe you could take a speed boat out, and have some fun on the water with friends. Save up your money to travel somewhere you've never been to before. Maybe another country! I don't know. But good luck. I'm sure you'll figure something out.

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  • So change your life! Everyone is capable of doing something different, you make the choice to continue like this, so if you've had enough...do something about it.

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  • 100% normal. I feel the same way. My life is boring since I was born and raised in the same town. I wish I could travel places, but I dont have the money. I hate that money limits freedom.

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    • It only limits you if you're unwilling to take risks. When I was 17 and travelling in Germany for a month, I met a guy who was travelling with 5 bucks in his pocket! He was soooo lovely, and made friends with everyone everywhere he went. He later confided to me that he had to, coz he was so short of money and people invited him to join them to eat / stay etc. He would pop into a bar and ask if he were to lift glasses from outside would they give him a sandwich or if they had any work etc.

      When I got home, he rang me to see if I wanted to meet up to go grape-picking in France. However, I like a boring life and he was just too adventurous for me! If you are ever stuck, you can go to the local police or contact your country's embassy.

      Maybe you just need to change your job, or do some voluntary work to meet others less fortunate than yourself. Whatever you decide, break out for a little adventure.

      Good luck.

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      • i'll keep that close in mind, thanks!

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  • well u should do something about your life dont wait. Justg something that u always wanted 2 do it. U only hav 1 life

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  • I think a lot of people spend time dreaming about something big happening that will suddenly change their life.
    Its human nature to gravitate towards a routine, even when we try to avoid it... its safe, its predictable, its our default~
    Try going half way with your default - go on a leave of absence for a year from your work and live in another country - then your job is still available if you choose to come back :)

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  • I'm the same way. We should all make love.

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