Is it normal to be best friends with a twin sister?

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I'm a guy, and I have a fraternal twin sister (non-identical) who is basically my best friend.

So you have an idea of how we are, we are really, really close to each other, like completely best friends and we do almost everything together. we've always been this way since we were little and neither of us like being apart from the other for much time. my sister even got our school to let her change lockers to the one next to mine. I'd rather hang out with her than any of my other friends, and she feels the same way. we dont do anything bad together, like we aren't dating or having sex or anything, we're just great friends.
Our parents made us go to a psychiatrist or psychologist or whatever a couple years ago but it was really just a waste of money. We're still as much friends as we ever have been. We were adopted together when we were babies, which maybe has something to do with it I guess?

anyway, is it normal?

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  • spidercrowblaze18762
    11 years ago | pl

    buddy, i dnt have a twin sister, bt i FUCK my sister like 4 or 5 times a week! Its normal dude, i have sex wid her coz i love to suck her boobies, nd she loves my dick.....

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago | pl

    why wouldn't this be normal. you literally grew up together.

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  • kinda
    11 years ago | pl

    normal you are both so cute <3

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  • maccmedia68
    11 years ago | pl

    In your situation it is "normal". Children form better bonds with people if they receive the right amount of positive psychical contact as infants. A disproportionate number of people that were adopted have issues forming close bonds later in life. It is not the adoption as such. It is because of the lack of physical intimacy compared to a non adoptive situation. In your situation I would suspect that because the person you were closet to was your sister that is the person you formed the closed bond with. Not unlike the the psychology of "Imprinting"(read up!). Though there is some debate on the significance of a direct comparison to human infants. I think therapy is a good idea. Not to break you of it, but to try to explain to you the mechanism behind it. It always helps to know yourself better. And if you are not comfortable with the direction a particular therapist is taking. Find a new one. You have a right to get the information you feel you need. And to take a reasonable amount of time to explore different directions until you are comfortable it they are right or wrong.

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  • Love11
    10 years ago | pl

    I have a sister, but this article just makes me jealous!!

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  • DoTheTaster
    10 years ago | pl

    I went to high school with a pair of twins like you. They went everywhere together, and we rarely saw them apart. At the time, it seemed a odd to us, but now I know about the bond that some twins have. I'd say it's completely normal.

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  • plum6
    10 years ago | pl

    Yeah it seems perfectly fine to me as well, I wish I had a twin brother or sister as well who is just naturally understanding about everything this way.

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  • Beowulfbrol
    11 years ago | pl

    Spidercrowblaze there's something SERIOUSLY wrong with you..wtf..anyways i find it normal and cool that you friends with your sister..that's good.family comes 1st

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago | pl

    I'd say it's normal. I'm close with my brother even though he is a pro-american Christian conservative and I'm an anti-American Nazi atheist. I find it odd this is even a question....

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  • Legion
    11 years ago | pl

    its great that you get along with her very well. I tend to fight alot with my twin brother.

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