if you ask someone to put out their cigratte some might obey some might refuse some might fight and some might insult u
what will u do if he/she replies "are you my father/mother? or did u pay for the cigratte?
Yeah it can be hard sometimes to stay positive and be polite when we're bothered by things. I think the OP has a point in that people should try to be nice, but I understand that it could be difficult when someone is suffering.
Mostly I think people should just try to be more kind to others, whether it's about smoking, not smoking, or anything else.
Is it normal to be awe-struck by socially-accepted rudeness?
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I don't think people should be rude first. Wouldn't it be worth it to ask politely to see if they'd move or put out their cigarette?
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if you ask someone to put out their cigratte some might obey some might refuse some might fight and some might insult u
what will u do if he/she replies "are you my father/mother? or did u pay for the cigratte?
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Isn't that the whole point of the post? That smokers who aren't rude and who do acquiesce shouldn't be treated rudely?
If someone did that they would be rude. I can understand being upset by that but they're not the sort of person the Q is about, I think.
I didn't say that people SHOULD be rude, just that it's understandable. Sometimes, when people are in pain, they're rude. I get that.
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Yeah it can be hard sometimes to stay positive and be polite when we're bothered by things. I think the OP has a point in that people should try to be nice, but I understand that it could be difficult when someone is suffering.
Mostly I think people should just try to be more kind to others, whether it's about smoking, not smoking, or anything else.