Bonus! the looks get you the initial attention. So now just ask questions.
Maybe you've tried this but after you make your quick reply ask a related question. Try to notice something about her, like maybe she has a band t-shirt on, ask her about it. If she's a friend of a friend ask her how she knows your other friend. If you're in school together ask her about a class you might share together etc...(not fasion though like 'nice prada shoes!' cause then she might think you're gay.) Show interest in the other person.
Also don't be afraid to talk about yourself. If sombody asks you a question they want to know about you. You're not going to bore them or seem too into yourself. You need to have a certain amount of openness in what you're willing to share (within reason) to have a good conversation. Especially with a girl!
Once you start elaborating on yourself they might quip in with something related like "oh that's like this time I..." then you can listen to them for a while and quip in with a point of your own and voila... You have a conversation!
Just try it. If you think you've said something stupid just aknowledge it and make a joke about it. Humour also livens up a conversation.
Is it normal to be attractive , popular , and shy ?
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Bonus! the looks get you the initial attention. So now just ask questions.
Maybe you've tried this but after you make your quick reply ask a related question. Try to notice something about her, like maybe she has a band t-shirt on, ask her about it. If she's a friend of a friend ask her how she knows your other friend. If you're in school together ask her about a class you might share together etc...(not fasion though like 'nice prada shoes!' cause then she might think you're gay.) Show interest in the other person.
Also don't be afraid to talk about yourself. If sombody asks you a question they want to know about you. You're not going to bore them or seem too into yourself. You need to have a certain amount of openness in what you're willing to share (within reason) to have a good conversation. Especially with a girl!
Once you start elaborating on yourself they might quip in with something related like "oh that's like this time I..." then you can listen to them for a while and quip in with a point of your own and voila... You have a conversation!
Just try it. If you think you've said something stupid just aknowledge it and make a joke about it. Humour also livens up a conversation.