the key is to discipline yourself to constantly redirect your attention outward and onto anything other than yourself. try to forget yourself as it were and get lost in stuff in the outside world.
I struggled with this for years and this was one of the big insights I had.
Any mirrors you have in your house, put them where you wont see them unless your shaving or brushing your hair.
try to forget that you look so damn good looking.
Another thing that might make you feel more comfortable is to dress in ultra mundane clothing. Getting too fashionable just makes you an even bigger target for attention.
Ultimately you will have to face the reality and get comfortable being admired.
Is it normal to be attractive , popular , and shy ?
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I'm good looking too.
Everywhere I go, women stare at me.
It can makes you incredibly self concious.
the key is to discipline yourself to constantly redirect your attention outward and onto anything other than yourself. try to forget yourself as it were and get lost in stuff in the outside world.
I struggled with this for years and this was one of the big insights I had.
Any mirrors you have in your house, put them where you wont see them unless your shaving or brushing your hair.
try to forget that you look so damn good looking.
Another thing that might make you feel more comfortable is to dress in ultra mundane clothing. Getting too fashionable just makes you an even bigger target for attention.
Ultimately you will have to face the reality and get comfortable being admired.